When putting my views on controlling a sub on chastity web sites, I am astonished at the comments by some people, even the submissive ones (which most are). When I say I am punishing my sub for doing things I don't want him to do, I get comments saying I am denying him a meaningful relationship and other garbage. If my sub doesn't like what I say or do, then he is quite at liberty to go. Sorry if this sounds like I'm getting into a Hissy fit over this but I'm feeing rather angry.
Have to agree with your point of view. A subs role is to obey his domme and accept punishment if he doesn't. That's what he needs and desires if he is truly a sub..... the only opinions that really matter are yours and your subs.
i am also astounded at this. Just weird! Isn't Your sub enjoying this? Of course You both are! That is why we share with each other here and supposedly "there" also, wherever that may be. i do have an idea though, stick with us and it will all be fine. Forget those "other" places. Where would we be without Women like You anyway? We would all just be a bunch of lonely wankers. (Now that's a funny thought, wanking over not being able to wank..HAHAHA) Even those of us married would be fantasizing...dreaming of it all. By the way, i assume this silly thing doesn’t occur here on the Mansion does it? i should think this would be the one place where this type of backlash would never happen. Oh well, another commiserating but not particularly useful answer. If Women like you and the delightful Women on this forum didn’t actually exist we would certainly have to invent you in our fantasies. Consider Yourself appreciated here subklik
if someone is complaining,hey dont know waht they are talking about. i would give anything to have a Mistress to control my urges and key.
If you have confidence in yourself, cross examination is neither offensive or objectionable. It often helps improve decision-making. Snark, mockery, sarcasm, and insults are another matter, a thing to be endured, but part and parcel of the real world. When you make BDSM work on your own terms, the gallery can't really impeach that.