Why are you in chasity?

That's how we got into a Chaste lifestyle ....It's all about the Journey!

 

Iy truly is amazing!

 

That's a great description of the beginning of my journey!

 

The behavior pattern that you described is similar to my journey.

 

So many people would be a lot better with it if they understood, like everything in life, it is all about the journey, thank you. Once I understood, a new world opened before me!

 

It was written by ChatGPT.

 

That's not very nice. I thought this was a place where we can reach out without fear of being tricked.

 

You mispelled "gullible".

 

She wants to be in control and in control of sex. When and how and how many times. She likes me to be teased, frustrated, and desperate for her. She likes receiving pleasure without being obligated to reciprocate. She likes being served and pampered. She likes turning my ass red.

You know, the basic stuff.

 

Truce please. Some of you posts don't seem like you are a sarcastic jerk off.

 

My interest started a few months ago. I bought a cheap plastic cage and it was exciting to wear it. I then told my wife who took the key and let me out after 3 days. She obviously looked about as she bought me a metal cage for Christmas, which I got locked into on boxing day. But as I work in the office 2 days a week I get released for the 2 days.
Then we got some bad news. She has cancer and the medication she is taking means I can't get any of her bodily fluids on my body. We were sat with the oncologist and cancer nurse when we were told that.
Her reply was "Oh that would happen. He's locked in a chastity cage". I nearly fainted with embarrassment.
Later she told me I will now only be released a part from showers if she gets good news about her cancer.
So far locked for 4 weeks.

 

essentially, because I want to be

 

Best answer EVER!!!

 

cos it gets rid of my little willy and makes me nice and flat.

 

Well I've tried everything else.. This one actually works for both of us.

Seriously though. Because with Chastity
My wife loves me. She totally loves and adores me. And I know it.
I couldn't feel more loved if she wrote it on a note and nailed it to my head. C feels the same.
Maybe onlookers would feel I'm being taken advantage of sometimes. Not true.
There isn't a thing either of us give or take that wouldn't be given or taken willingly, lovingly, adoringly.
We are having a lot of fun, it can be exciting. But mainly we live for and love our children, family and friends.

This isn't who we are, it's about a cock cage and the tease, denial and the changes in behaviour. This is all a part of us now and likley will always be. The cage isn't a constant reminder anymore than my wedding ring is. It's there. Mainly unnoticed due to being so familiar.
We are simply Us. This just makes us more us.
On reflection it's a pretty big US change, brought about one grain of sand at a time in this relationship hourglass.
Sometimes I think. Holy shit! My wife keeps me locked up and doesn't let me come. Like really. Not a game. She does not feel sorry for me or miss anything that used to be normal. The cage (as far as my wife is concerned), will always be on me, and sex will always be on her terms. If I want to touch it, use it. I have to ask and would likely be told "No".
I'm used to not asking and feel better for not needing to.
My wife loves me. She totally loves and adores me... And wants me.

And I know it.

Thats why I'm in chastity.

 

Wanting is better than having

 

Well, after a bit of a pause, we’d decided to go at it again. But on a monthly basis, ~2 weeks, while she’s having her period + some random number of days after. Then I get unlocked for some kind of action until her next period.
So today she told me she got her period, and I locked myself up and gave her her key. Lucky ❤️

 

I did a trade with my wife. For medical reasons, she no longer enjoys being penetrated, and knowing what I'm like she suggested that to avoid me getting frustrated we should sleep in separate rooms. I didn't want that and so we agreed that to avoid temptation I would wear a chastity device 24/7. It's working well, as I can still suck and play with her her clit and she now fist fucks me and I come that way.

 

That’s as interesting as it is hot.

 

I am naturally submissive to women and chastity just goes to enhancing my sub tendencies. I don’t engage in cross dressing or feminization mainly due to vanity. I know I would find myself unattractive and I am a very vain person. If I had discovered this aspect of myself forty years ago things could very well be different but this is how things are.

 

For me it's the shift in the power dynamic. I'm in a senior position at work and it's that I go from being the person making decisions all day, to relinquishing the power and control to my Temptress when I come home.

 

I'm not a cross-dresser either for pretty much the same reason... I'm not a violent person, but people who first encounter me are always intimidated by how I look. I'm not a big guy, only 5 foot 7 inches, but people describe my look as being like Sylvester Stallone on a very bad day in one of his later movies. LOL. I'm totally not making this up. That's why I tell people in chat here in CM that my chastity is "Masculine" and not submissive.

 

I feel you brother. It was such a big step but I remember slowly trying to introduce my wife to the Chastity Device Concept, and then there was the night when I put the keys down on the counter and asked her to hold them for me. It was amazing what her reaction was. Rest assured it has taken years since then to get things going full swing. It is a process for sure so try not to pressure your wife into things. It took a long time for me to finally be where I am at and it still is not where I would like to be. My situation is still too vanilla for me but I have learned to appreciate whatever my wife will give me. She immediately locks the keys up in her safe and holds them there until we can be intimate together again. NO teasing no domination, but I am good with that. I get to snuggle with her at times and rub up against her but as of yet, she has not touched or rubbed my chastity cage or teased me directly. However, I truly grateful for what I have. It is a slow process so stay with it and treat her like the queen that she is.

 

My journey into chasity commenced many years since when my wife laid on our marital bed with her lover presented me with a cage, bought by him. I fitted it and liked it, she did too.

Originally i was locked away a couple of days before he came, during and afterwards and i liked this "control" and submission to her.

I found that being caged removed any pressure to be sexually involved and locked it increased my mental stimulation of watching her being pleasured miles more than i ever had or could.

She had already started allocating me female knickers so it seamed a natural advancement too, she didnt need me sexually as he took care of her desires but knew she wanted me to remain faithful to her.

I found going to work wearing female underwear very kinky and knew she did too, so it was only a matter of time and a natural progression before i stood at work briefing staff caged.

I realised that whilst a dominant alpha male i was also a sexual submissive and liked being caged seeing her with the padlock keys around her neck, our secret.

I began to feel naked without a cage so it became a permanent fitment, to some the only semi downside would be sitting to pee at work but as i had done this for many years having a PA it was not much of a change anyway.

As she sought to semi feminize me she bought me female tight jeans to wear away from work, shopping visiting friends etc and i still find the bulge in these jeans a turn on.