The PA is the only way. A fallacy?

I don’t follow your logic, in my case our issue with the piercing had nothing to do with my healing rather my wife disliking it and getting injured via PIV the jewelry. Physically, I did not have issues with the piercing or cage.

While your premise may not be false I do not believe it applies to my case.

 

Can't you just remove the jewellery before sex?

 

I wouldn’t risk it on a Frenum. Even though I had gauged up to 10ga, the morning I took it out to let it close up it had closed up enough by the afternoon that I couldn’t even get my 14ga jewelry in.

 

Wow, and from what I’ve heard a PA behaves very differently, in that they never close up if the piercing is removed?

 

I’ve had my PA removed for hours and never any issues putting either my jewelry or cage back through.

 

I have had my pa removed for maybe 2 months. I wore a 6 gauge lock in the hole for 2.5 days and then stuck a 2 gauge chastity cage back into it. It doesn’t close once you open it up to size 2. It’s the only way I think chastity is real. I could pull right out the back of any device without it. We remove it for sex as she isn’t a fan despite cumming hard the first few times after I got it. Then she decided it wasn’t for her. I don’t think chastity is legit without the pa. I am back in a Lori 8c today

 

I have both a Frenum and a PA. Evotion makes a cage that accommodates both.

 

I have no piercings, quite keen but can’t decide between frenum or PA. If you could only have one, which one, and why @sadiedog01 ?

 

Isn’t it possible to remove all jewelry momentarily from from the penis for the duration of sex?

 

I just asked this without seeing you already did.

 

. The PA healed much faster and is a more robust piercing compared to the Frenum. The frenum is prone to closing up and is much harder to stretch to a bigger gauge compared to the PA. IMHO... Your mileage may vary..

 

How long a healing period would that be?

 

12 week minimum.

 

The question I always come down to is, why? Sure, So I can't pull out. I then ask, Why is that a problem? I've worn my cage now for over 5 months. Pulled out only once, because I had a yeast infection brewing, wanted to put some cream on it, and didn't want to wake my wife. Reasonable exception in my book. So, pulling out just doesn't happen. Maybe other's can't resist. But I find pulling out the least of my problems. I've discovered I can enjoy myself while in the cage. Cumming in the cage is not an issue. Even a closed tube and urethra plug cannot stop determined me. There is only one way short of castration or simply chopping off my dick and that's self control. I find a promise of honest and an occasional question from my wife, as in, "When was the last time you jerked off?" is enough to keep me honest. I won't lie. If I have to say, yesterday, I'd be horrified. So I don't. Seriously, why do any of this if your not committed. On the other hand, a piercing looks nice and can give some nice stimulation to your partner. For those reasons, a piercing is a great idea. But to keep from pulling out, Not quite.

 

I agree, it's about control.

 

Actually, I think it's a great idea. I wanted one. My KH/wife doesn't want me to get it. So I'm not disagreeing with the concept. Just trying to understand it better. Maybe learn something more about what I'm missing. So still, with a PA, you can't get out. And yes, I do like that thought, and the transfer of control associated with it. But you can still cum. That's really the control that I'd like to give up. And a PA doesn't help in that. Unless it does somehow. Is there a solution other than self control to the orgasms?

 

I agree very much, I love that is not my choice if I want to pull out.

 

I can’t cum in my cage. No way.

 

1) My tube device is very tight and relies on friction to avoid placing tension on my PA Piercing.

2) I have successfully sort of orgasmed once. It was painful and not in a good way. I would not wish to repeat the experience.

3) My Wife’s position is, “fuck your honesty and self control. I control you”!

 

I hate cumming in the cage, only tried it once. Do not want to repeat.

 

I agree, a PA chastity cage goes not prevent masturbation but it definitely discourages it. I started taking blood pressure medicine which induced E.D. This made it VERY difficult to masturbate with my PA chastity cage locked on to the point were I don't even try any more. My wife has no interest in resolving my E.D. I think she likes the additional control over me. My current situation (chaste 24/7 + E..D) is very emasculating knowing that she dictates when and how I am allowed to orgasm. So, given the right circumstances a PA chastity cage can stop you from cumming.

 

Have you ever thought about taking the meds. I take this 'daily' dose. Basically it works all the time. That, combined with semen retention really makes me ready to go any time of day, any day of the week at a moments notice. And if that isn't in the plan, I get to be reminded periodically as my cock 'stretches' in the cage for little reason at all. I can imagine folks say, why take an ED medication if you're not going to get to use it anyway. Personally, I like the feeling, even if it's not going to get out.

 

A good piercing of your choice to lock it down. Then a couple of strategically placed subtle spikes that you only feel when you get hard should do the trick. My Wife struggling with this same issue at the moment. She’s going to try an upgrade to my current cage. I think the spikes would work. The pain from something like that or when you get pinched by an uncomfortable cage will remove any gas from your arousal state. Unless the pain is something that turns you on. I’ll let you know how it works out.