Tips for sleeping through the night

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    What?
    How that?
     
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    What type of pain/discomfort are you having? Under the scrotum skin chafing? Lower back pain? Something else?
     
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    There is no pain or actual discomfort, I just seem to get woken up often by simply getting erect. Very rarely would I have chafing, which would get solved easily by just applying products to the skin, so that was never an issue.
     
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    I change into a bit bigger cage and base ring for sleeping. Be sure to empty bladder. Considering your age your going to get erections often at night. Like others say, you need to get used to it like you do wearing during day..
     
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    Quite simple.
    Can you pee with an erection?

    When your bladder fills during the night (your kidneys never stop working) an erection stops any accidental leakage between waking up and going for a pee. Thinking about it, an erection might even be the body's way of waking you up to do so!
    You should know that if you start peeing with even a partial erection, it'll quickly go completely soft as you urinate. It's also not comfortable making love with a full bladder, so evolution has given us a mechanism that enables us to not wet the bed, and then being concious about it, encouragement to have sex as soon as we've sorted that out!
    (of course, in our case, chastity alters that possibility).!
     
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    I understand what you mean - nice theory, but am not sure if the conclusion is right.
    What happens if the erection passes by? Do you wet your bed then? Your bladder is even fuller than when you started to have the erection.

    I wake up in the night or have a less deep sleep several times.
    Then my brain checks the surrounding and the internal sensors. If the bladder is full it says:" Hey Body get up, have a pee and get back into the bed. "

    Problem easily solved. No erection needed.
     
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    Wrong sequence... Your bladder fills first, the pressure causes an erection, only THEN do you wake up.
     
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    I am really not sure about your theory.
    You wake up to check your surroundings. For to avoid to get eaten by a wildcat, wolf or similar.
    I dont wake up with an erection and my bladder isnt full all the time
     
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    Nighttime erections are normal for male humans. I have my opinions about femdom that seeks to eliminate them through punishment or whatever.
    I am pleased that at 63 I still get healthy nighttime erections. Trapped-balls chastity devices have never worked well for me; actual belts are better. I have a Carrara that is inescapable, but nighttime wood just hurts. About a year ago I got a BehindBars system. Based on advice, I got a 2" tube and, because someone had one for sale for a good price, a 4" tube. The 2" tube is painful at night. The 4" tube lets my cock engorge and expand, but keeps it pointing down. It's uncomfortable, but not painful the way the Carrara and 2" tube are. So I recommend BehindBarz chastity belts.
    I am looking forward to receiving a new enclosed tube.
    For the fun of it, I also got a BB Pup Tube. This is really comfortable sleeping in, but not for public wear. My recommendation here would be to get the right length and the added security bars. Maybe the 2" tube is passable in public under baggy pants. The PA trap isn't practical.
     
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    I forgot to add: don't do Kegel exercises at night. (Yes, boys do them too.) That will just make your nighttime wood more intense.
     
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    I thought the erecting is caused by a full bladder pressing on your prostrate gland?
    Any way I had a wonderful night of disturbed sleep last night caused by constant straining in my cage. I use the time I am awake to play with my nipples. I know it only makes me hornier and more frustrated but I love it!!!
     
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    One idea is to have two cages. One long one for night use which allows plenty of expansion, and one for day wear which is lest visible and more in keeping with the ideals of chastity.
     
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