Hi folks, I've been a member of the forum for a while and have been easing myself into chastity with a few days here and a few days there, trying different combinations of spacers and rings on my CB6000S. Now I'm ready. I saw my friend over the weekend and she's now become my keyholder. She's taken one key home with her and hidden the second one somewhere in my house in case of emergency. It's now only just dawned on me what I'm doing and I guess I'm a little nervous. The longest I've ever gone is 12 days - and I was incredibly horny at the end of that period. I'd been aiming for two weeks but couldn't manage it, so unlocked myself and had the most amazing powerful orgasm. I've been locked up a week already and won't be out for another three weeks. So I wonder if anyone can help me out here. I realise that, in a few more days, I am going to be feeling incredibly horny again - but this time there's no way out. What's the best way to deal with the horniness? And will it subside, or just get even more intense after two weeks, three weeks, four weeks? Many thanks, Anduin PS There's a punishment if I try to get out as well - to drink a wine glass full of her pee.
Well, thanks for all your replies. It's now day 13 of my chastity period, so a new record for me. But I'm not going to be out until day 28 - so that's a long, long way to go for me. I am feeling incredibly horny. Last night, I decided to try and milk my prostate to relieve some of the tension and bring my libido down a bit - didn't work. I used a small vibrator for maybe 20 minutes but, apart from it feeling good, nothing happened. No ejaculation. I'm definitely getting used to the feeling though. Most of the time, I forget the device is there. It's only really when I'm turned on or going to the loo that I'm reminded. Sitting down to pee is now second nature, as is placing panty liners in my knickers every day. Amazing how a guy can get used to two such womanly things like that in such a short space of time. And I'm having no trouble at night anymore. Before I started this period of lock-up, I experimented with different sizers and spacers until I found the right combination. All that trial and error definitely paid off - no more 5am agonising wake-ups. Well, that's where I'm at. If anyone would like to comment, please do! Anduin x
Once the key walks out the door, the game sure does change. As for the wait till it comes back. Better be on your best behavior and send her some flowers to her work as a sign that your still out there waiting... As for a month without, get use to it, and the milking will come with time, as it might be the only way you ever will pleasure yourself again.. Hoping for the best, Missy Tanya
Hi Tanya, many thanks for your message. Well, the deal was that this was only a one-month thing. I'll see her two weekends from now and she's agreed to let me out. It's my birthday weekend as well, so I guess it's kind of like a reward. She's a friend and not really into this, so she's doing this for me really - it's not like she's getting off on the power she holds over me now or anything - far from it. We've only ever been platonic friends. It's going to be off in two weeks' time. Part of me wants to get out of this thing, be free and have the ability to orgasm again. Oh, sweet, sweet orgasm! But part of me likes this - the feeling of being under someone else's power - the frustration of not being able to do anything whatsoever about my horniness. Not sure that I could go longer for a month though. It's been two weeks now and I'm so horny! We'll see though. And it's nice to look down and there and see my Hello Kitty padlock. I think it's so cute! On that note, I have a new blue one as well, which I'm thinking of putting on Ebay if anyone's interested? I think Pink's much more my colour!
Hi, Well, my keyholder was due to meet me on Friday and I was to be released - after just short of four weeks in chastity (previous PB 12 days). Now she's got personal problems and can't visit. I know if I asked her, she'd tell me where she put the emergency key (as I say, she's doing this entirely for me and is not getting off on the power). But I'm wondering whether I should continue with this. Half of me thinks no - I want an orgasm and have bought a new pair of knickers to wear to mark the occasion. But half of me wants to see how long I can go with this. My horniness has dropped away a little now and I feel in a state of what I can only describe as calm. The only time I really get the horn now is when I look at porn - and then it's major. I try not to look at it anymore. So, what should I do? Unlock on Friday, as arranged, or continue - and it's likely to be another month or so before I see my friend again. Maybe, if I do unlock on Friday, with the emergency key, there has to be some kind of forefeit. Any ideas?
Hi, if i was in your position, i would give myself a real birthday-treat. But however it depends of what you think is best for you: To release (and i would suggest a minimum of three full orgasms on that special day) and afterwards relock for the next month, or just stay put and locked, having another month of constant horniness and sweet frustration ahead of you without any break. Given the circumstances you describe, i would decide for the latter by the way... ;-) Chaste regards, Keuschling
Thanks for your reply but I'm free - for now, anyway! I wasn't planning to release myself today but I was bending over tying up my boots and one of the boys, painfully, slipped out. There was no way of getting it back in there without unlocking, so I decided to take the device off. So there we go. Three weeks and five days - a new PB for me, so got to be happy with that. I've not orgasmed yet but I want it to be special - not just a quick hand shandy. Maybe I can for longer next time. What do you suggest? Five weeks, six? Maybe eight? Anduin x
Dear Anduin, bad to hear about your condition and the reasons for it. Regarding to make it special: do not load yourself with too high expectations. From my experience, it is seldomly the case that an orgasm especially after plus one week chastity is such enormous as it is spread in any forum. Regarding how long to go now with chastity from now on: whatever suits you best. Don't make it unrealistic, just move slowly but steadily. So why not go for this personal record once again, and just add a few days or one week. Chaste regards, Keuschling
Thanks for your post. I'm having a break from chastity for the next week or two. By the way, does anyone have any problems with dry skin when coming out of chastity? The skin on my penis has gone incredibly dry and is flaking and peeling away. Quite sore, too. It was fine when I unlocked but seems to have really dried out since then. Quite painful. :-(