What effect does male chastity have on women?

BrotherlyLover · Sep 17, 2011

I'm not in chastity, but fascinated by the concept -- particularly by chastity's effect on how two people relate to each other sexually. Please bear with me.

The "mind fucking" experience on men has been talked about endlessly. I'm interested in the mental effect on a woman of knowing she (almost) literally has a man's cock in her pocket. Does she become more interested in sex, in the man she has locked up or in men in general?

I asked these questions on another kink board and all the women who responded (unscientifically, of course) reported being thrilled by the power that male chastity gave them. Several called it "powerfully erotic." Other comments were "I love it"..."It makes me happy"..."so much evil wickedness can be had." These were kinky women, of course, but it seemed significan t that one wrote, "I've mentioned it to women and they get a wicked gleam in their eyes...love it!" So, perhaps there is something in many women that makes them excited by having this sort of power.

Here is why I ask:

Lots of long-married men complain about wives who have lost interest in sex. Is this a solution? And, if so, I have to also ask: If such men try to introduce male chastity into their marriages, could they be accurately accused of trying to manipulate women -- that is, of trying to get their minds to run in new ways by artificial means? Does this bother anyone?

Jeffrey44 · Sep 17, 2011

Your thoughts BrotherlyLover run on the same lines as mine. However, I have a different expereince. I have talked to my wife about this and she really seems not interested. I have went to a few websites...we discussed it at quite a bit of length, but if I don't bring up the subject she never asks me about it at all. She really isn't interested. I'm sure if it happened maybe she's change her mind, but it's something that I always have to bring up. So from my expereince, I think some women don't care at all if a man is "locked up". Just my own personall expereince from 13 years of marriage. Good post though, excellent thoughts.

NewGirlD · Oct 7, 2011

Hello, I know this post was closed a little while ago, but I thought I would reply because I think, considering I'm pretty new to the lifestyle, I could give the OP some insight? I'm not sure, but here goes!

When my boyfriend broached the topic of his fantasy to me, we were no longer together - our two and a half year relationship had fizzled out, I guess. He only mentioned it to me, not because we were wanting to give things another shot (we had originally closed all doors to that) but because we realised one of our problems was that we never talked about things with each other, which included sex. He told me that he was interested in chastity and in being locked up and when I expressed an interest (he thought I'd be disgusted, which is something I don't understand?) he showed me various websites etc and through discussing and exploring it as individuals, it has helped us get our relationship back to where it was initially.

Sex was never an issue for us, it was always amazing, I thought, but now it is so much more than amazing! I never consider the fact that I am in control, nor do I see it as an excuse to be wicked, I see it as the two of us sharing a fantasy and enjoying playing the game. I mean, it has been for a while a discussion, he has only been locked up since Monday (his last orgasm was a week before that) and now I'm in control of when I release him next.

For me, I didn't think I'd love it as much as I do - it makes me love him more. It makes me want to please him, by teasing him and denying him more and in return, I love the fact that he can't get enough of me. It makes me feel sexy and adored, which is always very nice! ^_^

Mistress linda and slave · May 12, 2014

hello, i know this post closed years ago but thought it interesting and should maybe be revisited. we got into chastity because slave was masturbating way too much , and not doing his duties. as it has progressed, ive found he just needs a firm hand. and it has progressed to many different aspects of kink. now he is kept in chastity, 24/7, and many things including me having lovers has progressed.

Sunny · May 13, 2014

From my KH wife's experience and after completing 2 years in strict chastity, I can say that
1. Having 'total' control over husband's cock is itself a great pleasure; as by & large women are possessive
2. Makes a man submissive, caring and focused on key holding partner
3. It's an assurance that the man won't have sexual activity / affair anywhere outside
4. She gets an intense sexual pleasure as and when she wants, since all his energy is well preserved
5. Her man does not waste time is watching porn & masterbuting
6. Keeps family together & increases emotional bonds

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