Just saw a woman in public wearing a key necklace

Nice!

 

My wife wears a decorative key (decorative because Holy Trainer keys are ugly) on a necklace everyday that I am locked which is most of the time. It excites us both if others know what the key means.

 

Whenever I need affirmation that wife likes me locked I cam look at the small golden key she has worn for nearly 10 years now around her neck

 

How do you know it was a chastity key and not one of those key to my heart keys?

 

If I saw a lady wearing an obvious chastity key (ie a real key, not an ornament) then I'd always take the opportunity to say something. It would be something gentle, like "I like that you're wearing that key. My wife wears my key", so making it obvious I know, but if it was innocent and it wasan't chastity related then it would be interpreted in the vanilla way.
Even then, you'd be able to tell which it was from the smile!

 

You have about a one in one thousand chance of being correct in your assumption.

 

Thats close enough for this right?

 

I am a middle school teacher and wear mine to school. Is that wrong of me?

 

It is not!

 

Means nothing sadly. My secretary has one - She's not into this at all

 

Maybe. But you did think about it. The possible connection to chastity initially meant something to you, even if you then came to the conclusion that it wasn't what you thought it might be. Would she think the same way about you if looking sideways at you she noticed a certain recognisable shape detail in the bulge of your trousers?
Most people are very good at projecting the personality they want to project, and protecting the parts of their life they don't want exposed, even with their life partner. Does your secretary know or suspect that you practice chastity? Unless you live with her, and discuss these things in depth with her, how can you be sure of any of this?

Sex is so much more mental than physical. A little physical reality triggers powerful associations in the mind, which then triggers our hormonal responses. What matters to us as individuals is the erotic thoughts going round in our own heads, not the lack of them in the observed ladies or anyone else's head. To enjoy without offending all we have to do is not impose our thoughts or actions on them.

I have often changed both my own sexual enjoyment and my relationships for the better by prioritising a particular viewpoint on something I observe.
In this scenario, there's nothing wrong with fantasising about what control your secretary has over a partner with that key. In my own experience, I have convinced myself that my wife ignoring my chastity between sexual encounters was her way of strengthening and testing my denial.
Who hasn't mentally undressed someone in the street to fantasise about what they are wearing under their outer clothes? Whether that couple you see in the hotel lobby in the middle of the afternoon have just left their hotel bedroom and how gymnastic they might have been?

Sex is mostly in the mind. Your sex is in your mind, mine is in mine.
Who knows or who can ever be sure what's in other people's?

 

It’s probably no worse than the places he actually wears his cage…
Honestly, if people found out he wore it in the changing rooms at the local pool on this site there would be an uproar!

 

Cool.
I only once met a coworking doctor that wore a usual key neckless. Was very nice looking.

I said what a nice key she wore and asked what it opens. From then on she wore it covered in her cleavage.
Maybe I hit a nerve. Hehe.

 

Key/locket necklaces seem to be super common once I started paying attention. I highly doubt every woman wearing a key has any idea of the possible symbolism. Unless you're using some ungodly size or custom padlock it's a tiny plain key anyway. In that case it's probably safe to make assumptions.

 

i think it should be good idea for my relationship with my gf, to have a key necklace. I am new to chastity, but i think we may want to try this just so it seems more normal as part of our sexual lifestyle. I am quite pissed off by the idea that our sexual desires around chastity and male submission is considered a taboo, and we live two lives as a couple (hiding my sub character) just to be seen normal in the social circles we live in. But this will keep it alive. And if asked by friends, she can always respond in a fun way, that she has the key to me. While we would secretly know what it means.

 

It’s not wrong at all, it’s very hot indeed! Especially if any dads recognise its meaning…!

 

My wife wore a Tiffany key somewhere whenever I was locked. Usually as a necklace but also often as a wrap bracelet. If she knew I was on the edge she would find an excuse to dangle the key in front of me and say something like, look at that girls hot shoes, bet you wish i was wearing them.

 

As a boy I liked to imagine that any woman who wore high heeled boots did so as a signal that she was a dominatrix. It made going out shopping with my mother into a sexually exciting experience…!