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    Subby and I practice domestic discipline. I have expectations for him and he is good about meeting those…most of the time. Lately he has been texting and driving, which I very much disapprove of. Tomorrow, he will be disciplined with the paddle. He will have time out before, and lectured during. I can usually make him cry in less than a minute. For me, it helps keep him in line. For subby, he says it’s a cathartic experience and gets him back on the right track. We have a young child, so punishments can’t be spontaneous when problems arise, which works for us because it gives him time to think on what he’s done wrong, and what the consequences are. Do you practice domestic discipline? What does that look like for you?
     
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    So he should! There is no excuse to be doing anything while you drive! You should just be driving!!
     
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    Miss A will have my bottom blistered bad for the results of the punishment it will be on my feed tomorrow evening…
     
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    I ment She! And so it should be!
     
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    We practice it. The paddling is spontaneous sometimes. Sometimes it’s not. Either way I have to sit down and write out what I did. Why it shouldn’t have happened. Then list five things I can do to correct my behavior. Definitely get lectured while being paddled too.
     
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    Yes I get a firm lecture before and during.. we cannot do spontaneous unfortunately with kids
     
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    We don’t have kids yet. She’s starting to want to change that. We will definitely have to change the way a lot of things go when we do. We’re discussing that part of it and making plans for how to go about it.
     
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    You will be obeyed, I think he might be liking it to much, and wants more and more punishment Miss A
    Maybe punishment him by refusing to do you normal and try something else.
     
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    I do think it's better when it isn't spontaneous but an appointment is made. The countdown becomes excruciating.
     
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    Wireless technologies are the future of domestic discipline. Once your sissy is securely lock in an escape proof steel device that has electrodes that are in contact with sissy's little clitty and you have the controller, you can make sissy obey your every wish. Sissy can be edged, or sissy can be punished. You are in total control.
     
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    I too am getting punished tonight for texting while driving. I have already had my lecture and scolding.
     
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    My punishments usually consist of corner time and loss of privileges, such as being grounded from doing activities with friends for a period of time. If my wife does not like my tone of voice with her or I bore her with talking about nonsense, she will make me sit or kneel with a pacifier in my mouth and may restrict my talking for the rest of the day.
     
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    Why do you always refer to all men as sissies? And then talk about their "clitty"? It's like you get off just writing it...
     
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    I would soooo love it if my wife did that to me!
     
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    Yes, we practice DD and was the basis for my nickname. Discipline is a wonderful way to wipe the slate clean of dismeaners.

    "What does it look like ... ?" very red and sore ass, with vivid stripes where the implement has left marks ;-)

    In reality, there's consequences for anything that displeases Lady C, whether that is because I have not done a task, done something she didn't want me to, was bratty, got drunk.

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    Wow, thats impressive! It takes me much longer, and even then I haven't had a full blubbing and weeping break down. I really want to though! I shake with fear after a while and quickly break out in a cold sweat, but a full let-go-of-it-all cry is something I struggle to do. I live in hope though!
     
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    well sometimes i start crying before the paddle has hit me.
     
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    Just spotted that sentence. Must be a very severe paddle. What's it made of?

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    It’s wooden
     
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    We've got a cruel wooden paddle too. Named the FLR paddle - For Loving Reminders.

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    I've been wishing for my wife to push me to tears, but hasn't happened yet. I'm curious about whether it will feel cathartic, or if I'll shift into subspace. Lately she's been pushing my limits harder, and though I haven't even used my "slow down" (yellow) safeword yet, it's been getting closer, and that makes me wonder if I will be able to tolerate letting her push me all the way to tears. I think we may find out this coming year, given the movement over the past several months.
     
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    A wooden paddle is the tool of choice for my disciplinary corrections here
     
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    Once a month my wife has a corporal domestic discipline session. I’m restrained to our punishment bench, and receive anywhere from 20 to 60 cane strokes. She will tell me what I’ve done wrong that month and why I’m being corrected. No matter if it’s 20 or 60, I’m left in tears. Sobbing and crying. I have a hard time sitting for days, and the welts and bruises last for at least a week. There’s no safe word, and she will strike at full force. This is strictly meant for correcting my behaviour and she has been doing this for a few years now. I don’t look forward to them, and seeing the day circled on the calendar, has me on my best behaviour the week leading up to it. She gave me my discipline hours before we took a three hour flight a couple months ago. It was the worst flight I ever experienced. My ass was a mess and I don’t know how I managed to sit on the plane that day.
     
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    #25 Tamed Male, Dec 18, 2023
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    My wife practiced domestic discipline and wrote in her since of our marriage agreement that it would be unfair to me if she let me escape from correction

    She had me consent to her caning me without a safeword if she ever thought I needed it, but in practice she always used extra chores, loss of privileges, loss of free time, and strict/harsh supervision as the actual punishments, and there were times when she kept it up until I was crying.
     
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