Hi all just wondering at what point during you initial lockup you knew you needed to be permanently locked, this is my second time locked up in a month but this time it feels if I want to be locked permanently
My first or second time locking up I wanted it for life. I had a homemade cage . It was horrible. Even after buying a few real ones it was so hard to find one that worked for permanent wear , but I have one now and love it. I can't imagine not wearing it now. Looks my wife can't either
I’ve wanted to be 24/7 since the first time, in spite of knowing it wouldn’t be possible until I had my cage sorted out. Here I am a year later, and I’m still trying, but the desire is still there.
There's alot of factors that come into play with finding the right cage. I cant explain it . Once you find that right one being unlocked won't feel right anymore
I permanently wear a cage for awhile now, don't see that changing anytime soon. Permanently locked no, I'm released from time to time for fun. Personally have no desire for it to stay on forever, can't see the appeal in never getting off again. Couple weeks between orgasms makes them mind blowing and me appreciate them. To give them up forever nope not for me.
I fantasise about being permanently locked but don't know I could do it for real. I think I'd do up to a week. It is weird though, since I've got interested in chastity again, whenever I unlock, it feels weird and I want to lock back up again.
I have a short but wide Cherry Keeper with a tall oval double ring. It's very comfortable but then again I'm only two weeks in my journey. My wife (KH) chose the red colour and loves it! I know we have now entered the recommended initial 3 month lock up, but I expect we will be going longer.
I started with the CB6000S because I found it online at a closeout sale and was amazed how comfortable it was the first time I put it on. Forgot it was on until later that day when I went to jerk off to some porn... Oops! LOL! Last month, I bought a steel "Keyholder's Prize" short cage and I like it to, but the extra weight of steel takes some getting used to. It's really weird that a plastic cage with a multiple ring set can allow some expansion during arousal, where a steel cage might not (this one didn't). They are truly different experiences and moving from one to the other takes some getting used to I had a problem with the steel cage moving around and found I could slip out of it a little too easy... I thought it was the extra weight, but it turns out I ordered it with a large ring and just recently found my ring size is actually medium, so I ordered another one in the correct size and I'm waiting for it to arrive. I'll post an update after it arrives and I try it on. I'm currently using The Vice Mini V2 with the included anti-pullout and I just love it! It grabs me and holds the cage firmly in place so there's no chance of slipping out. Best part is there's no pain or soreness of any kind with the Vice's anti-pullout. It just feels damn good to be gripped like that and it's assuring to know you won't be getting out without the key. I can't be locked up for more than a few hours at a time... At least for now. Because I have a couple of real life situations where the cage would get in the way and possibly do physical harm. I unlock myself just before I go to sleep at night because I can't sleep with it on no matter what I try. Also, I have to be as mobile (and often fast paced) at work as I can be, so being caged while at a near running pace would be extremely risky to me and I don't wanna injure myself. My biggest issue with chastity that prevents me from being locked up all day long is the fact that I can't pee while locked up. I suspect it's a combination of shy bladder plus the cages themselves are blocking my urine path, so I made 3 rules for using the bathroom until I figure out just what's going on. 1) No jerking off in the bathroom unless it's Release Day. 2) The cage goes back on and gets locked before leaving the bathroom with 3 exceptions - Release Day - Showering - Getting ready for work 3) The key goes in the medicine cabinet and NEVER leaves the bathroom, no matter what. Set in stone. Those 3 rules allow me to play this chastity game and have alot of fun with it. I also have emergency backup keys for all my cages locked in a safe on the other side of the residence, so I feel pretty safe playing this game. Overall, I would say it's a tossup between the CB6000S which allows some expansion in the cage, and the Vice Mini V2 with anti-pullout which makes expansion very difficult (not impossible) and thus more frustrating upon excitement. I can't speak for the steel Keyholder's Prize cage just yet, because I guessed the wrong ring size and they only sold the cage with single ring sizes, so I think that's actually a con with ordering a steel cage (at least in my experience). After the medium steel ring comes in I'll give it a try and post an update with a comparison between it and the other 2 plastic cages I have.
Interesting question you pose there. We fell into chastity- it was lightweight stuff initially- but the older I've got the more need I need to be bound. I feel "safer" caged. I don't have to "perform" or satisfy her with penile performance. I'm relieved to be honest. Someone commented on my testes and said they were now "useless". frankly they are. I'll never father another child so those egg shaped glands won't do what they are supposed to anymore. I'm happy !
Sounds like a good plan PornAddict. I'd also suggest that rather than put the key in the medicine cabinet, get a timer safe (google ksafe) so that after showing, you can lock the key away until bed time, or whenever you choose (in advance) for your release time to be.
I was gonna get a timed lockbox and keep that on my desk to stare at and tease myself with... But the problem is I can't pee while I'm locked up, hence me keeping the key in the bathroom. I'm not sure what the problem is, but until I figure that part out, I don't really have a choice there. That's why I made those rules for the bathroom.
I’m with you on the peeing. Most sit to pee. I’m outdoors a lot and do not always have the luxury of sitting. I need to be able to pee standing up without peeing all over myself. I have found if I can pull the tip of my penis slightly out the tip of my cage, then it’s all good. Just hope it doesn’t get cold and it pulls back!
This is a pretty common reaction. Once you've been locked up for awhile, you feel naked af without your cage on.