You know you've been locked a long time when.....

I don't ask to take it off for cleaning - that feels like too much and I can get the job done with a soapy toothbrush. But I completely agree! If I did take it off, I'd want it back on immediately. It's such a comfort to be locked.

 

when wearing your cage becomes so second nature that it seems awkward and wrong somehow to not be wearing it.

 

What a great thread!!

• When it feels so normal that you KNOW there's no going back. This is how your wife likes it and you've accepted it? Yes!
• Think in terms of months or years? Absolutely!
• October is just another month? Right on!
• Feel uncomfortable not having it on? Oh hell yes!
• Your Wife asks you if you want to have a orgasm, and you say no because you don't want to break your streak of 17 months orgasm free and have to start over again...? Nailed it!
• You don't remember you are wearing a cage and just do your every day chores like it normal...? One hundred percent!
• You would rather see (and hear) your Wife (KH) have several orgasms and you have zero...? You got it!

I'll add, for myself personally:

• When there's a chance that someone will notice your cage under your tight clothing, but you really don't mind if they do.
  
• Your birthday or your anniversary will always have zero consequence w.r.t. your denial.
• You entertain the idea that your final orgasm may be in the rear view mirror.
• It feels totally foreign to use a urinal.
• You're commanded to be unlocked on a business trip but you take your cage with you and lock it on as soon as you're through airport security.
• You crave being constantly horny and dislike the thought of an orgasm messing that up.

I actually like to be reminded that I'm locked up. I like feeling and seeing the cage. I like that it makes me have to do things other men don't have to do, and I like being reminded of that. And I appreciate the night-time attempts to get an erection for the same reason. I hope they don't go away.

Again, what a great thread.

 

I usually take it off twice a week for cleaning. Even though i can do a good clean with it on there's still some areas I can't quite get

 

... when you worry about where to put Mistress' laundry after folding!

 

When you watch Countdown and keep thinking of words such as ruin, strapon and cage.

 

When you have a dream where you aren’t wearing your cage and when you realize it, you feel guilty that you’re letting your key holder down.

 

I’ve had my first dreams where I’m locked during this Locktober. Quite the mind trip when I wake up and realize that it’s become such an integral part of our lives that it’s part of my dreams.

 

When your KH forgot where she put the keys…

 

...when you know exactly where to put her laundry after folding.

 

Keys?

 

when the key has gone all rusty.

 

So true only caged orgasms for me and remotely possible release around Christmas day if I completely finish all the jobs she's set out for me.

 

You don't even think twice about using the urinal in the men's room but head straight for a stall.

You feel better and less embarrassed being naked around her with your cage on.

Something that never changes: the desire to touch and hold your erection in your hand.

 

Yesterday had a real example of truly locked and forgotten, or it's been that way for so long its just natural

Wife
We need to get home I need a toilet
Me
Yes, me too
Her
Oh you can hang your trouser snake out behind any tree
Me
Ummm, no, I need to sit too, ....the cage
Her
Laughter
That's right, I forgot I put it away forever


He has only been out once for a new cage in last 14 months