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    You've got it absolutely right. That was my intention to support him behaving as usual.
     
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    While I see some sweet cruelty in subjecting him to that embarrassment and perhaps humiliation, I hope that is one of his kinks and that he enjoyed it.

    Even still, I tend to be bothered by any humiliation that involves any person not consenting to be a part of play. You intentionally made an incident in a high security environment, complicating the job of at least 1 random worker, and you risked a potentially bad situation developing that you had no control over or way to know what might happen.

    Being a Dom(me) is hard work, and many don't think about the creativity and effort that goes into planning and taking responsibility. With that in mind, I don't want to admonish you too much, but I don't think you made the right decision here. Please be more responsible in public environments in the future, and maintain perspective on boundaries of play and safety/security.
     
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    That was diabolic and deviously fun of you to put a giant pad lock on his cage. Hopefully the security screener was another man. Either way super embarrasing for your husband I'm sure. What if the male screener had a thing for men, uh oh husband would be in an unfortunate situation. Did I hear someone say rectal exam. Lol

    Not sure how it is in other countries but here in the US. It has to be male to male and female to female or at least male with another female present to screen a female as a man, so there are no sexual harassment claims. Typically the more witnesses the better for the screeners.
     
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    It's the same here, male on male.
     
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    Unlocktober has started.

    We arrived at the hotel, went to the marathon convention to get his bib number and found ourselves at the hotel bar at night.
    He was already curious to get unlocked but I told him that we need to be clear about the rules.

    First of all, he won't get orgasms at any day which is not a release day. It is absolutely fine for him to have erections but nothing else. We may be intimate at any time but I will not care about the penis. I trust him about his behaviour and I will support him anytime, we may talk about any problems. But I will not tolerate unallowed orgasms. I asked him to imagine that I would deny him any sort of intimacy until he begs my to physically punish him by slapping his balls intensely. He is not a fan of this.

    But I offered him some new experiences at release date, that might bring his submissive desire to a new level, he will enjoy. He asked about details but I told him that I want to surprise him.
    At our hotel room I took off the seal from his cage and he removed it.
    There is a big shower cabin and I asked him to lay down there. I squated above him and gave him a good view whlie I fingered myself to orgasm and peed on his face. He had a boner all the time.
     
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    Did your husband experience the airport adventure well?
    Was he ready? What did he tell the policeman? Did he enjoy undergoing this kind of humiliation?
     
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    Don't worry about him. He had a few days to get prepared.
     
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    In less than ten hours we both will be pierced down there.
     
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    Good Luck !
     
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    Yes good luck. I hope everything goes well and there are no complications.
     
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    Husband successfully finished the Berlin Marathon.
    Has been some interesting two nights at Berlin, having a husband with a boner but knowing that he won't get a chance for an orgasm. We agreed that it would be even more difficult for him to give the penis attention.
    He has a lot of foreskin, which he wears retracted in the cages. Meanwhile the skin remains behind his glans permanentely.

    We took our flight back to Munich, brought the luggage home and dressed in tracht and went to the piercing studio. But this time he wore a boxer short under the lederhosn but I went commando under my dirndl.
    We arrived at the piercing studio and met the lovely lady who already pierced me six months ago.
    I decided that he would go first. I have rarely seen the penis containing such few blood. As we already talked months before with her she used a wider needle and he got pierced at 2,4 mm. I took his hands and he was a brave guy for the necessary seconds. There were some drops of blood and she recommended a band-aid and letting him hang freely.

    Then it was my turn. Laying down and take skirt up. It took some time to adjust position correctly and there was a bigger needle for me as well so I could start directly with my permanent jewelry, a massive golden horseshoe with two golden balls.
    I asked my husband to hold my hands and then the pain hit me hard.

    At our way home we had some difficulties to walk normally. But this applies to hundredthousands each Oktoberfest night.
    At home we checked our wounds, just minor bleeding. Both of us felt every heart beat down there.

    Today he went to his office and I am working from home. He takes it easier than me.
     
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    If I remember correctly your first piercing was a VCH, where exactly is this new piercing please?
     
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    Yes, you remember correctly and now I got a triangle piercing.
     
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    Not sure what you are doing with visual functions…

    “I had fun and made big eyes” …großen Augen!

    Security staff gave you a strange look!

    thx for sharing!
     
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    Apparently you are very lucky to have the right anatomy for a triangle piercing.
    The objective of this piercing is to provide stimulation so with a VCH above and a triangle below I hope your husband is up to it :)
    Hope the longish healing period goes well.
     
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    Me going cold turkey is quite a big thing for me.
    We will manage this together.
     
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    Great to here its gone well, well done
     
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    We both managed our first three nights, no issues so far with the piercing wounds.
    Band-aids and a bit of pee play (the own) works for both of us.
     
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    This is great. I am happy to be locked in chastity. She has told a few close girlfriends about it. But it would be so nice to have someone else that was in the know that I could talk to. To express frustration and support.
     
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    Airport security attracts gay and lesbians for the very reason they do same gender searches. They don't mind doing deeper searches as it's all developmental. It would however slow down the control for other passengers. Finding something which is of no risk to aviation isn’t a waste of time, the officer would be happy they checked properly. Unlucky if you want them to open up orifices, that would be done by a doctor. Nobody in law enforcement does that, maybe in prisons I never worked there.
     
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    My husband was very honest to me. Yesterday he worked from home and he felt constant arousal, from the long time since last release day and because of the new sensation at his frenum. But he didn't do unallowed things because he wants to follow my orders and he doesn't want to risk healing.

    There will be an extended weekend due to national holiday on Tuesday. I told him that I will support him and he shouldn't have any thoughts besides release day, which will be in three days again and that he shouldn't risk it.
     
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    The weather is still remarkable, very sunny and almost thirty degrees in the afternoon. Some good aspects of climate change.
    We took a sunbath and let our wounds dry. I gave him a good view and his needle pointed straight north.

    Husband said, that he would feel safer being caged. I answered, that he shouldn't risk healing. He said, that he could modify one of our former cobra style cages and cut a hole where the piercing would be.
    I said, that he should consider some movement of the piercing in side and length.
    He immediately went to work on it. I followed him, because I was sceptical about it.
    Finally I insisted on checking the wound every twelve hours and applying a new band-aid or maybe two of them stacked to buffer a bit.
    He took the biggest tube and made an opening of about two centimeters squared, in which the piercing can move and used a sock to insert the penis into the tube carefully. For the next days he will be under my supervision so we use a small carabiner instead of a lock to assure fast removal.

    Then we went to beergarden.
    I told him that I am very proud of his behaviour but that I don't want to risk his healing. We will monitor this carefully the next days.
    Furthermore I told him that his orgasm(s) on Monday will be anal only but I will use our Nexus in the intended way exclusively, which won't work now, because obviously I can't wear it currently. I invited him to the sex shop tomorrow to find a solution. I hope that we will meet the nice sales lady again and talk dirty.

    He is sleeping now, while I am posting. What a crazy tournaround, one week ago I offered him Unlocktoberfest and now he volunteered to be caged again.
    Meanwhile I am getting hornier each day. My feelings from my doubly fondled clitoris are multipied by his submission. I assume that I will have fewer orgasms than he will experience during locktober.

    We play it very contradictory, but with great effect.:)
     
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    It's interesting when u pass the point of prefering to be caged rather than not being caged at all. I love the security and ownership of being kept in the cage
     
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    wow. A fantastic quote. And quite a mental picture, too.
     
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