Premature Ejaculation Training

My previous girl was never really a fan of sex and found my kinks way too much to handle…. But a few times she put a timer on for PIV - I had 1 minute to cum… that in itself was horny AF… I made it once… otherwise, when I failed, she literally pushed me off her saying, “you failed, get off!!”… and that was my lot……

 

The one time you were successful, did you eat her creampie?

 

Nah… that really would have freaked her out!!!

 

LOL

 

I just watched your video. Very impressive!

 

Everything very interesting.
In our case we have evolved to only anally induced orgasms.
Time is not more an issue , the idea is to never directly stimulate the penis and reach , more than an orgasm, a milking, which I can qualify in a 1 to 10 scale as a 4 in satisfaction!

 

she's hot

 

My Goddess prefers it to be over as quickly as possible, the last time it was given permission to wank it lasted 31 seconds from flaccid. Not sure how that compares to others though.

 

Way back when I was a horny teenager - my record was about 17s, but starting from hard and horny.

Now thanks to SSRIs - it's a crap shoot if I come at all.

Chastity with teasing and denial have definitely made more frequent - and that's one of great benefits of chastity to me.

 

I find this an interesting subject.
I would class myself as having premature ejaculation tendencies.
Ever since the first time having PIV I've orgasmed before my partner. Sometimes within seconds of insertion.
Sometimes before insertion. Other times I could last minutes or even 10+ minutes.
My partner now wife has always been understanding and never complained. She would either bring herself off before or after PIV as required. She always said it was flattering, that I came so quickly.
It became frustrating for me, a couple of pumps then pull out and cum on mine or her belly/tits.
So I thought wearing a cage during foreplay or over the weekend with teasing would be fun and I would last until she was satisfied, by using toys, dildo's and strap-on would take the pressure off me and provide great orgasms for my wife.
But here's the problem, watching her orgasm while I'm fucking her pussy with a big thick strap-on cock.
Stretching her pussy lips, stuffing her fuller and filling her deeper inside. Her moans and meowing of pleasure, whilst my tiny cock is locked in a small cage, gets me so excited I mostly orgasm in the cage.
Occasionally I get to feel her loose stretched out, dripping wet pussy, one pump and I orgasm.
So I've discussed with the Wife and I would like her to train me to orgasm to a trigger word, whether caged or un-caged. If I could always orgasm within 1 minute or less that would be my goal.
Sorry for the long story, hope someone can help with a trigger word.

 

Hello all. When I was with my ex i could last maybe a hr of PIV. Together for about 15 yrs broke i was 47 or so. Got together as FWB some but my lasting was going No sex in a yr or little over now but when i play was not long and sometimes not hard but would get hard after orgasm dont understand that one. So those who orgasm very fast are you happy you do and is she happy also? I want to but dont and also she said i am big and i did clean her up after we had sex and she loved it

 

"Dribble Now!"

 

"Spurt Now!"

 

The last time I vibed while in the cage I managed to get to ruin it myself in about 10 seconds!! So close to cumming, I pulled the vibe away and 3 seconds later out shot one measly spurt. That was it. No sense of pleasure but a certain tiny bit of relief in draining at least something!!

 

That is awesome, with the HT3 Nub I have not been able to release in my cage. I am able to cum in under a minute once out.

Just got a new cage - Fusion Pink Narrow Baby Cobra. It is a better fit for me so maybe I won't have to take it off.

 

After 150 days caged 24/7 (and maybe 3 caged orgasms), my wife decided to release me a couple days before we were to leave a vacation. We were having a few drinks on the deck and she told me to go in the bathroom where she had left the key and a shot glass, unlock myself, and then JO into shot glass and drink it. She was hoping to then have PIV before bed, however due to the drinks and the long lockup, my little guy wasn't up to the task.

Since vaca (beach vaca with family) she has left me unlocked so far so that she has access when needed, however the results have been as follows:

1) special time of month started shortly after we returned from vaca, however I was really horny one day and offered to give her full body massage if I could have permission to release (hands-free) if it got to that point. She gave me the green light, but said I needed to rub her for at least 20 minutes and then had to cleanup any mess i made. At 20 min and 15 sec, after working back up to her glutes and lower back, I unloaded on her back and then licked it up as instructed.

2) one morning while still laying in bed she removed her panties and allowed me to pleasure her with my fingers for a bit, before telling me she wanted me inside her. I'm very sensitive in the a.m. anyway, even without the foreplay, and I told her I wasn't going to last very long. She just smiled and said maybe I should just go take care of myself and we could try again later. I said no, let's try it...but as soon as I got the tip to the entrance of her vagina, I exploded.

3) another morning she was feeling a little frisky and after giving me a few light strokes, she told me to take off my underwear and proceeded to climb on top of me. She slid up and down about 4 times before I exploded inside of her. She was able to keep going for about a minute before my little guy started to shrivel up.

 

How did she feel about not having erections?

 

Assume you mean orgasms...for her? I've asked her several times, including recently, how she feels about the impact of chastity and orgasm denial on my stamina, and she continues to say she's not bothered by it, and if anything is slightly amused by it.

 

I'm like that too,can't last 30 seconds with her Hitachi-- and it's so hard to pull it away!

 

It’s really hard to pull away but willpower is the order of the day…. I don’t want to either - but that would REALLY be cheating in my opinion! Just pull away, ruin it yourself and have one tiny spurt just to give SOME relief - it’s the only way!! Stay strong my friend!

 

Now 2 years later and I can still provide enough service for piv so my Wife can get her orgasm, it is difficult at times if she’s denied any orgasms for me for extended time, I’ll have to stop a couple times and change up position sometimes. But when she’s granting me an orgasm either ruined or full, it’s usually by handjob and she can make me go within a couple mins and if she wanted to just get it over with, without edging and teasing first, she could almost certainly make it happen in less than a minute.
My Wife absolutely loves it that I have very little control & stamina any more, and it still is a total mind fuck for me. I’ll tell her I really want to be able to fuck her like I used to, and she giggles and will say something about how I don’t have that ability any more.
And there’s no chance she’ll ever allow me to build stamina again. She loves the control and dominance over me. But I love it too really

 

I am interested in trying this. I am single and looks like will stay single. I have seen pics but want to see some videos showing how they are doing this. I want make sure I am rubbing the correct spot

 

WOW that was amazing, lots of cum and I believe it was closer to 15 seconds too. Wow so pathetic but inspiring for other useless wannabes.

 

You've been trained very well! Soft to spurt in around 15 seconds, you are definitely a premature ejaculator now. With that training you've had, you're never going to get any stamina back. Completely impossible and useless in trying to please a woman with such a quick shot penis.
Grewt you have great oral skills! That tongue of yours will get a workout not the penis. Bravo.