Too Subjective...

great, great reply. you and your husband’s stance sounds very similar to my wife and i. she is in no way vanilla and tried very hard to get into CM on her own, because we have very complimentary kinks with chastity being the core. thing is, she found CM quite “cringy” to use her word. she’s also mature enough to scroll on by when needed, but she found that she did a lot more scrolling than reading or otherwise participating. not once tho did i stop to consider requesting a separate subforum be created, but honestly bravo to the folks that did. i honestly don’t think it solved anything, but hey it’s a start.

 

Phase 1: His fun, her burden
Phase 2: His fun, her fun
Phase 3: His burden, her fun (but that's his fun too)

 

Well said

 

my phase 2 was way too short