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    Hi all,

    My wife and I were discussing my cage last night and she asked me if I am able to pull out. I am honestly not able to. I will admit that in moments of weakness on my own, I have tried…
    I just have never been able to.

    My wife was suspicious and still has a real concern that I am able to pull out. Whilst researching anti-pullout devices, she is now really keen on a PA.

    The thought terrifies me, but she is really very keen on the idea and wants me to tell her in a few days if I will have it done.

    I will do it for her, of course but can I ask your experiences of PA’s?
    Can you tell me about the process / any pain / healing time, and how it works with your cage?

    Thanks all
     
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    It’s scarier than it is.
    The piercing is not very painful. The receiving tube is a bit uncomfortable but not terrible. But that’s just when they put it in.

    Once you’re pierced it’s a bit annoying for a bit but not terrible. After they once you size up it’s actually amazing.

    The only real negative for you is waiting to go back in chastity while you heal. Don’t rush it. Also tell your piercer what the PA is for so the can place it properly. For chastity they place it a little deeper on the shaft for more strength and to prevent tear out.
     
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    You need to take the time to heal the piercing correctly. You need to be careful with hygiene during that period. Once it is healed and stretched up to a reasonable size, there is no extra effort required.
     
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    The worst part about the piercing is the morning after since you will bleed at night with normal nocturnal erections. Wear appropriate non stick bandages and be prepared for a bloody mess. Just the first night though.

    Besides that, if you are 100 percent sure that you are in chastity forever, do it. Takes it to a different level.

    If not, hold off.

    This is a permanent piercing and will not close up by simply removing the jewelry like an ear piercing will.
     
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    It feels amazing after all healed take your time with the healing process because when she sees how much security it adds you will never be free
     
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    The wife called and made the appointment for the piercing and was present in the private room when it took place. I was a bit nervous, but the staff was very professional and reassuring. It took longer to measure, pick out jewelry and sanitize everything than the actual piercing did. Not sure if my nervousness had anything to do with it, but my penis was more shriveled that usual. Having another male "handle" my less than flattering manhood added some embarrassment to the experience.
    There was about 2 or 3 seconds of sharp pain, then it was over. He inserted the ring and wrapped me up in gauze. I had some light bleeding for a couple days. I was fully healed in less than a month, but waited 2 full months before going back into the cage. My cage isn't specific for PA use, but the captive bead ring fit nicely between the bars of the cage and lined up with the piercing too. That's when male chastity took on a new level of intensity for us.
     
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    When you first have it done urinate into a cup or similar of warm water, I was told to by my piercer and it helps by having your Penis submerged the initial few pee's are not to painful.
     
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    Got a VCH piercing five weeks ago and my piercer also told about using pee to sanitize. Worked well.
     
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    Its your body. Do what YOU want. Does she have any piercings. Is she willing to get her body parts pierced for your enjoyment?
     
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    I enjoyed mine while I had it and had gauged it way up. They are indeed amazing during piv. It’s really not that bad to have done!
     
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    Don't worry about it. It is really easy, I had mine done last week.

    Yes, the piercing is a bit of a pinch, but is done very quickly. I bled very little, even the next morning. Peeing was not an issue, no pain at all.

    Now I just have to wait for it to heal fully!
     
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    Thank you all, some really helpful great advice!

    I am leaning more toward the idea and my wife is still very keen. I’ve said I’ll decide by the end of the week. She has found a few local piercers and sent them over to me.
     
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    I was initially excited by the idea, then in the day ABSOLUTELY terrified, but too late to back out. It's all in the head, as it's a simple pinch and then it's done. There's a lot of blood the first 24hrs.

    The most painful part for me was stretching from 8ga to 6ga. This hurt a fair bit to be honest, but it's not lasting pain.
     
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    Yes, the best thing for the blood at the beginning is to put a nitrile glove over the whole package with a rubber band. That is what the piercer did for me, and I used it until it stopped bleeding. Just change the gauze twice a day when you soak it in a sea salt solution.
     
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    At 0ga now and I still marvel over how fat zero gauge is going into my dick and coming out of the PA! I did it about 5 days after separating from my first wife. She had hated the idea! Well I didn't have to fucking care anymore, now did I. Freedom!

    ShieldingMatrix
     
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    i had a PA done about 5 years ago. My Mistress at the time held my hand as I am a bit of a cry baby. It wasnt really very pain fully and didnt bleed much at all, This does however add a new dimention to chastity. With a PA it is imposable to pull out. Your in chastity weither you like it or not until someone opens the lock to your cage. I hope you go ahead and get it done.
     
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    I made an enq today but they said it takes 3 Months to heal and I should avoid sport ? Anyone any experience
     
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    I guess it all depends. I got mine 9 days ago and went for a three mile jog yesterday. I took some gauze and tape and wrapped up the ring and head pretty good. No pain or issues at all.
     
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    I don't want to steal your thread but am going to get nipples pierced on Sunday. I was thinking of doing penis so I can make her pretty but might be fun to lock a tube on it. What other options? I am very small so don't know if off the shelf stuff will work.
     
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    Oh please let me know how it goes, I'm on holiday now and getting mine done when I return
     
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    Had my PA done 6 or more years ago now at 10/11mm or think thats 0g or 00g. Only wish I had it done deeper or further down the shaft
     
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    Congrats. May you love your new piercings as much as we love ours.

    I was surprised how much I love having pierced nipples. I highly suggest anyone thinking of doing them to not wait.

    For you know pain varies. So just go in relaxed and it won’t be as bad! Then tell us how it went.

    FYI I did my nipples and PA at the same time. Love the nipple piercings more but the PA is pretty close!
     
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    Consulted with a piercer - they recommend 12 weeks no sports which rules me out due to the summer starting - in a bit gutted cause I was ready to submit. Fully after years of playing
     
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    oh no

    I’ve heard no swimming for 6 months. But never heard no sports. Personally I’d get another opinion. But then again we have a great piercer and we trust her and her recommendations.

    If I’m not mistaken the general concern is keeping the piercing clean. So that could be why they said that. I will say, I agree with you on erroring on the side of caution.
     
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    Thanks for encouragement!
     
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