Hello wise and experienced. Me and my boyfriend have been wearing flat chastity's of different kinds for about half a year now but using the toilet is always a hassle and a half so we ordered some flat cages with tubes to go down the urethra. However the issue seems to be that we can get the tube all the way down the shaft when erect (I mean I get hard just from about any touching so chastity is the only way to keep it down really). Issue is when getting soft cant really get it any further and is quite painful so have to give up. Is there any tips and tricks for this at all? Cause long term chastity is an ultimate goal currently but the biggest struggle is not getting the tube in any further as well as it being quite painful. All answers highly appreciated! -cassuwu
How long and what is the diameter of the tube you're using now? I've ordered a couple of various cages with catheter tubes and most tubes seemed to be too big when I first received them. However, with moderately frequent stretching episodes, I can take them all now. Perhaps if you purchased some sounds with similar (or longer) lengths ranging in diameter from a few mm's smaller to a few mm's larger. Then, over the course of several weeks, develop a "stretching" regimen using plenty of sterile lube and slowly work up over time from the smaller to the larger diameters. Take our time! If you notice any signs of blood during the process, stop and let things heal for several days. Then start again. I don't believe you can rush this process without injuring yourself. But there are others on here who have far more experience than I do with sounding, so we'll see what advice they can add. ~subrick
subrick has given you some very sound advice. From my own experience I would strongly suggest that you stay well away from any form of metal insert until you have reached and maintained the desired dilation ( stretching ) that you want. I was put on to silicone inserts and they are fantastic, so good that I have binned all my SS inserts. https://siliconenozzles.com/main.sc This is the place I was put on to and purchased all my inserts from. The other very important thing is hasten SLOWLY, I would recommend going up a size after a week of daily stretching at a given size which you very comfortably accept. and only then after the week. Even though I have achieved my goal size, I always use the next size down for about half and hour before I insert my desired size. Good luck and take things very slowly, don't want to damage Percy do you !
Hi and welcome to CM. I understand what and why you are trying to achieve. I too wear a small cage and find wearing it with a urethral tube better for urination. I presume you have done some homework and understand the risks! What type and size of tube are you trying to insert? Are you using lube? How far, exactly, do you get?
My hubby has worn a cage with urethral tube 24/7 for over 2 years now. His cage is not a flat (pancake style) but rather a short open-wire metal cage about 1 inch long. Hubby has no problem accomodating his metal tube and in fact now says that he cannot even tell it is in there. And it makes peeing much easier and neater for him. How long is the urethral tube you are trying to use? My hubby's tube only extends about 3/4" past his base ring which is long enough to make his cage totally escape-proof.
Thanks for all the replies and tips thus far already! Size answers; the tube/cathether lenght is about 35mm/1.37in with a diameter of 6.5mm/0.25in on wide part. @subrick @Ms_Brooke And for how much we can go in without discomfort; I can get about 10mm/0.4in inside and my boyfriend gets a bit more, though not a lot (when soft). The type is silicone with a metal tip at the insertable end and lube is applied generously. @Muffleduk
Thankyou. Sounds very similar to what I started with before switching to s/s. In the early days I remember there being a little discomfort on that initial entry of the steel tip. You need to gently push past that point and it should get give and then ease in without any further pain. Obviously after 2 years I don't get that feeling anymore. Hope this helps.
Yeah I would agree there is slight discomfort first going in at the start but our issue starts at when the tube goes further down like right at the beginning of the shaft, if that makes sense. Until then it is quite nice and comfy if not counting the initial entry, but once it reaches that spot it is quite painful, but will experiment with sounding if it is just tight on that area or something.
Ahh ok, fair enough. You say your tube length, steel tip to screw flange, is 35mm. My steel one is 70mm, I'm wondering if you're actually not going in far enough to get beyond the discomfort point. Just me surmising from the information. Is that the size it came in or what you cut them down to?
That is the size it came with, I did order a longer ones but haven't arrived yet. And you might be right on that, as the discomfort only exists when soft as the length doesn't go as far when hard ofc. Thanks for the info on 70mm as well hopefully it will get less uncomfy with time.
@cassuwu please i wudnt do it if i was you. one i had hurt me and i had it in me a long time and it still hurt. The one i got now in me is ok but it is only a short one and it let me pee ok.