Dealing with erections above the base ring ?

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    #1 Joris-Karl, Jan 5, 2023
    Hi all,

    I received my first device, a Sissy cage manufactured by Red Chili : it is as comfortable as it is beautifully made.

    I've been wearing it non stop for a couple of days, and experienced a few erections in it : though they are not painful (the anatomical base ring really helps in that matter I think), they manage to develop, not so much inside the cage, but above the base ring.

    I know it's quite common, but to what extent is it due to my anatomy or to the fitting of the cage ? To give you an idea, when the erection happens, the base ring is pushed about 3cm away from my pubes, maybe up to 4cm yesterday when my wife was teasing me.
    My cage is reasonably smaller than my flaccid penis, though I'm sure I could go smaller still.

    I guess my question is : is it inevitable, or should I consider different options next time (smaller cage, tighter base ring, etc.) ? NB: other than a chain around the waist, which I do not feel appealing at all.

    Thanks for your input !
     
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    #2 Joris-Karl, Jan 5, 2023
    For context, here are some pictures of the cage while being flaccid.
    You'll see that even when flaccid, my base ring is sitting quite low. But even if I force it up, I can't get it much higher because of my anatomy.
    So I'm not sure a smaller base ring would really be the solution, but maybe I'm wrong?
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    #3 jemima, Jan 5, 2023
    oooh you am big. i think tis cos the ring a bit big tho that it slip down.
     
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    #4 Joris-Karl, Jan 5, 2023
    I think you're right : I had tried spare rings before ordering, but only found them in 5mm increments. 40mm was too tight, and 45mm seemed right, so that's what I ordered. But with the weight of the cage, it tends to slip indeed.
    I can slip 2 fingertips under the ring (I have thin fingers though) : by how much do you think I should reduce the base ring diameter? Would 43mm make a substantial difference?
    Thanks!
     
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    #5 LockedJani, Jan 5, 2023
    What brand is the cage?
     
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    #6 Deleted member 97201, Jan 5, 2023
    Good idea, I’m trying out a different sized ring to see it helps me.
     
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    #7 Danny15, Jan 5, 2023
    I had the same problem with pretty much all ball trap cages until my current BAW cage. I've taken the advice to go for smaller cages and tried base rings from 50mm to 40mm , round and curved. But have found that my base ring is egg shaped. The longer section running top to bottom unlike most oval rings that sit on their side . That combined with a cage that has a pronounced downward curve is super comfortable, the cage is the exact length and diameter of my flaccid size. All things combined means it doesn't pull away from my body and doesn't permit erections strong enough to cause cage travel like every other ball trap device. I'm now considering adding a PA and hope that BAW can make something very similar to what I have with a PA hook .good luck
     
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    #8 Joris-Karl, Jan 5, 2023
    It’s the Sissy model from Red Chili devices.
     
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    #9 King Hippo, Jan 5, 2023
    @Joris-Karl A smaller length device has helped me a lot.
     
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    #10 Joris-Karl, Jan 6, 2023
    Thanks for the advice. I think I could go shorter in length with no problem, and will try next time.
     
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    #11 Peter3811, Jan 6, 2023
    I have the same problem, my penis is also a grower and the cage stretches my pubes very long when getting little erection. I cannot get a full erection while caged cause the limitation of the cage.
    I tried a curved ring and doesnt hurt like before while getting erection. But the cage is still 3cm from the body
     
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    #12 Joris-Karl, Jan 6, 2023
    I’m sure it is one of the main caveats of ball trap devices. With my anatomical base ring it does not really hurt though, but I thought my cage would stop erections more. I’ll definitely try a shorter one next time.
     
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    #13 jemima, Jan 7, 2023
    2mm dose make a diff yes. if you can get a 43 one that shud be better for you i think. and sometimes after you been in it for ages then you migt need to go a bit smaller again say to 40mm.
     
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