When you all are occasionally unlocked, for what ever reason, are ruined orgasms permitted or is it no cumming ever?
My wife occasionally will give me what we deem as a partial ruin… but everyone defines things differently. She’ll get me near the edge, stop, and do this over and over until I leak out mostly pre-cum and a bit of cum, but it’s usually just a drip or very weak dribble. I’ve seen some do a “ruin” that seems like a full expulsion of a normal load with stimulation stopped or the base of the penis held firmly. I never usually get that level. When she’s feeling generous I get a full one, and last was end of September. She’s been slowly weaning me to less and less full Os. Current plan is “at least” 90 days - which will put us in the new year or close, but next year her goal is only 2 full orgasms all year…giving me power to choose when I get them in each 6 month block…which is a mind fuck in another way.
My wife thinks I dont need an orgasm from penile stimulation anymore. So she milks me in the cage with a wand or with a prostate massage. Usually... Sometimes she takes my cock out and jerks like there wasnt a tomorrow. Cumming is not allowed. She drains my balls then by edging and edging and edging. And at one point the semen just flows out. She calls this milking, because it just flows out. Sometimes she jerks so hard that it makes me cum, but stops shortly before my orgasm. I ejaculate then, but without the final stimulus is is not a full orgasm. But other persons may define this different.
Ruined orgasms used to be fairly common, not anymore though. My wife uses a spinner wheel app to decide my sentence which has morphed considerably since we first started. Currently however many weeks she spins (it goes from 3 to 16) I spend that time fully denied with the opportunity to beg her for a ruined orgasm at the end. I’m currently 3.5 weeks into an 11 week sentence (the rest of the year). Full orgasms are at her discretion and she said she may allow one in February at the earliest.
i love it when things are decided be fate. You're lucky to have a Woman who pays you attention like that. Good luck.
We’ve been working on cutting my full orgasms way down, and my Wife has finally started to enjoy using ruins for her benefit. She used them on our Anniversary trip this summer, she’d give me a slow handjob and ruin an orgasm, then we could have some great, long piv sessions without worrying about me having an accident. She still views ruins as an orgasm though, even though they aren’t full release / relief. I still get plenty of full orgasms per year compared to many guys here, but for me, we’ve cut them down to less than 20% of what they once were, pre chastity cage. We’ll have a talk around the holidays and discuss how we’d like to proceed into 2023. That’ll be our fourth year using the cage, sometime in the Spring.
My Goddess wife stopped allowing rare masturbation and real orgasms about 22 months ago, and has told me this will be indefinite for the forcible future. She finds that I no longer suffer from orgasm drop, and I remain submissive and attentive to her at all times now. This has been her goal for a few years now, and she believes she has finally got me there. As far as relief goes, periodically I am allowed to give myself a prostrate milking. Under her supervision. I have been fortunate enough to be given a few rare ruined orgasms. Either by her sounding me, or the odd time she will hold her hitachi wand to my tube. Taking it away just before the point of no return. Leaving me dripping out my cum without real relief. I find that worse than a prostrate milking because it doesn’t really empty my balls fully, and I’m more horny and frustrated in the days following it. I actually find prostrate milkings better, because I can really drain my balls and that helps with the full and aching feeling for a few days at least.
My Wife(KH) will bring me to the edge and leave me hanging. I have to tell her when I'm getting close to orgasm and then she stops everything. She can get me right to the edge and stop. I will have six or seven spasms, but no cum. I will leak out a lot of pre-cum, but that's it. If she lets me masturbate for her, I have to stop before I cum. Which is very hard to do because I was so used to being able to jerk off and orgasm whenever I wanted to. Not being able to have a full orgasm anymore and being so close is a ruined orgasm for me, being able to cum is a full orgasm...JMHO...
Thanks, truly I’m so glad and lucky to have such a great and wonderful Goddess wife. I don’t complain about my circumstances, because it’s truly the life I wanted. And to have a beautiful wife embrace and enjoy this lifestyle so much as well. I couldn’t ask for more. Having to make life sacrifices and commitments to the one person you love, isn’t a bad trade off
This seems right to me. When i ruin, it's about 3-4 edges then on that last one, just let go and it oozes out. It so difficult though. When it's coming, i just want to grab it and jerk.
My mistress, is a strong believer that her slave should only cum while caged and not very often I'm generally allowed to cum every 6 to 8 weeks and her favourite method is to chain my hands and feet the corners of the bed and allow me fuck one of her dirty slippers while caged and as I'm doing this she will usually cane me until I cum !! After I cum in her slipper I'm then forced to lick it clean....every last drop!! I'm then released and sent to wash her slippers by hand under her close supervision....I'm a very lucky !! slave
Mines a bit pot luck, depends how she's feeling and how i've behaved as to whether i get an orgasm or not.
We are in year five, and cutting back on situations where you favor ruined orgasm and/or willfully trying to fail to ejaculate are only natural conditions to evolve to because for one the hubby loves the flow of oxytocin and being in a constant state of arousal, adoring his goddess as opposed to the let down he, we, hubby etc. all get after a full ejaculation w/ orgasm, and of course she will vote for that situation every time. I call it the dopamine downer.
I can't think of anything better then to focus my life on pleasing my queen mistress Ms T. forever and a day.
Yes, my Goodness wife has been cum training me since 2002. I actually had another online name before that. But she decided I should change it, based on my circumstances.
Madam has allowed me a few ruined orgasms, but only when I was very good. Normally she doesn’t allow me to get near that level. She much prefers seeing me have anal orgasms.