My KH/Wife has tasked to go forth to the internet to find reading material on the psychology of being caged. I think she wants to better understand the effect on my mind so she can use it to her advantage. So she wants me to get some suggestions on books for me to read and pass the info on to her sorta like self bondage I guess lol. So what are some books that go into depth about this type of thing?
Can you clarify on what you're looking for? Male chastity is often part of a FLR lifestyle, with varying degrees of Femdom being practiced in the bedroom. Are you interested in materials that delve into just the chastity aspect, or the broader topics of FLR/Femdom? FLR book is a recent thread that captured many suggestions on the broader scope.
"Locked-In Love: How two weeks in chastity can end the barter system, renew courtship, and make a better husband" by Key Barrett I found this one resonated with both my KH and I, despite being from a fairly vanilla perspective. Pretty basic/newbie on selecting and fitting a Cage (compared to the much better advice on CM), but it helped my Keyholder understand my headspace greatly and really marked the turning point for us going 24/7 after many years of occasional wear. Amazon has a pretty lengthy preview posted. In some ways it's the opposite of many the chastity guides out there that frame chastity in terms of the positive changes he'll make in order to "earn" release (what he calls the 'barter system'). Instead this book explores how being locked for a set time can channel his sexual energy to refocus the dynamic on the KHs needs (and the relationship) in a less transactional way.
Thank you fo4 sharing. My wife loved this, when I first plucked up the courage to finally say how important I felt chastity was to our FLR/marriage.
This one was the best for my wife…she immediately clicked to it and embraced it and we never looked back!