Morning/afternoon/evening where ever you may be. My Mistress and I have played around with chastity and having an FLR for a few years now and have loved doing it. The only downside is our consistency is lacking we usually last a month or so and we are going to start again in the new year. Part of our fun is CBT and so she unlocks me for that but we sometimes get carried away and then slip backwards. My only solution is that the key is locked away from us both and its only used for my weekly clean. Has anyone else got any tips or advice on how we could make this a permanent situation for us?
My wife turned chastity into a permanent ritual. She likes to play, so she'll take me out as often as twice in a week. However, she keeps the key in a combination lock box made for storing a spare key safely outdoors, they're inexpensive and tough. Before she removes the key she either locks me in my heavy steel collar or my "locking nose vise", (my maximum toleration for either is about two hours). With the bondage in place she locks up the keys for the bondage device while retrieving the key for the chastity device. After she has her way with me, it's not long before I re-attach my chastity device (in the mood or not), to get out of the collar and/or nose vice. She's very happy with her system, it's pretty effortless on her part, and guarantees my cooperation. She's also quite amused when I'm not in the mood and try and hold out putting it back on. I just can't last very long, the collar is very heavy and the nose vice is just very sensitive.
Thanks for that idea, I quite like the sound of that so will suggest it and see how she feels about it.
The locking nose vise sounds interesting. Searched but could not find any that "locked". Most used an allen wrench to adjust/secure. Can you post a pic or link?
Yes, mine came with an allenhead screw easily replaced with a tamper resistant screw. https://www.axsmar.eu/Erotica/Bondage/nosevise-with-30-cm-chain::125.html Axmar is the best, in my opinion.
Wow! That is a serious and intimidating looking piece of hardware. I can see how it's use warrants your compliance.
A chain padlocked around the waist or neck (not tight) is just as inescapable, and would be a little more comfortable, and probably not as scary/intimidating as an introduction to secure bondage while being unlocked.
We have no problem with bondage and me being restrained, just not sure Ms Scarlett would be keen on using my nose as the anchor point on my body. Our current thinking is that I'm only ever uncaged once a week to give a deep clean and shave.
well, my 9 year anniversary came and went yesterday. I went down on her. as usual. my cage didn't come off. we snuggled really really close last night though not sure it's ever coming off again. been 15 weeks locked. she's stated to me that there's really no need to unlock me.
We have settled on it being double locked, I have set 1 code and her the other. Gives us both accountability and less likely to open it on spur of the moment