It was the Saturday after Thanksgiving aka last night. I ask my wife if we could have sexy time. She decided it would be ok. She went to the room around 5:30pm. She took a bath soaking with a few drinks. She was in there for about 1.5 hours. She texted me. Told me to come rub her back. As I did she was laying there the Hatachi wand was out. I told her i need to wash my hands a shave first. Always going down on her in these moments. She said for me to take a shower and clean up if I wanted. So I decided to take a shower as she told me she was going to poke me. After I clean and shaved I returned to the bed where she was laying. It was about 7:30pm at this time. I started to rub her getting her to relax. She told me that she was ready that she had kept herself awake using the vibratory. She then directed me to lick her to orgasim. When she was nice and wet, wanting and ready. I stood between her legs while on her back. I tried to push myself into wanting love pot. I never got hard enough. She used her Hitachi wand. Presses it on her clit. As she did I felt myself building pressure from the vibratory. As I was limp I started to cum as I pushed just through he outer lips. I felt inadequate less of a man. This was the first time I have not gotten hard for her.haunting my thoughts I could not sleep well. I woke up to a soft throbbing feeling. I don't know what to do from here. I feel like crap though. It is hard for me to accept my failure. What can I do to feel better and fix this?
Idk, maybe you are right. I think that's a little harsh to hear. Exactly what I was thinking but, this is the first time. She does deserve better but wants no ther.
You set the subject line for this to "turning point". Is this is something you want or embrace? If so... fair enough talk and post about it here, you will be in good company. If this is not what you want and it makes you "feel like shit" - I think its better to talk to her, or a doctor and/or therapist. Your mental health is more important than any fetish you may engage in as a couple. -d
Every man, young and old, will suffer from ED from time to time. Don't beat yourself up too much about it. Try to find root causes (stress, tiredness, pressure to perform, hunger, blood pressure) and maybe go see a doctor.
I am ready to embrace it. However, I do love feeling my wife honey pot wrapped around my hard cock. If it becomes a regular problem then maybe I should have her cage