This year we have decided that we want to try a more full time FLR/chastity driven relationship. This is the draft of the contract we put together. We would love some feed back or ideas to improve it if anyone have any. Female Led Relationship contract This contract will last a period of 12 months starting on 01/01/2021. Both parties have the right to end the contract at any time. If nether party ends the contract in the 12 month period this contract will become permanent. Defining terms: Locked: to mean locked in a chastity device Orgasm: the ejaculation and continued stimulation to the penis or through anal. Ruin: ejaculation from stimulation or the penis when all stimulation to the penis stops when the point of no return is reached Milk: ejaculation from anal stimulation with no stimulation of the penis. High protocol: a set of rules established and trained by The Mistress, used for punishment session and other more formal play sessions. General rules: When at alone, the sub will always refer to as Mistress by her title. When around other people, ma’am will be used instead. When at home without others, the sub is only permitted clothe if given permission. The submissive is expected to drink 2l of water and eat a minimum of twice everyday. The submissive is expected to be forthcoming about where he has been and how much he has spent. When not locked, the submissive is not permitted to stimulate themselves in any way. Chores. Cook at least one meal a day for mistress Dishes done within 24 hours of use Make sure we have groceries General cleaning and upkeep Additional assigned task Maintain work home life balance (mistresses discretion) See that the dogs get at least 10 minutes of training each per day. Punishment Starting on Tuesdays, the submissive will have 10) ‘points.’ Remaining points don’t carry over to the next week. If The sub fails to complete a chore on time, He will lose a point If The sub is disrespectful to mistress or friends or family in anyway, He will lose a point If The sub fails to address you properly, He will lose a point If The sub breaks any of the other rules He will lose a point If the submissive and mistress argue for any reason He will lose however many points mistress feels He should. If The submissive orgasms, ruins or milks without permission, for any reason, He will lose all my points and start the next week with half. This does not count when sleeping. MIstress can remove points for any reason she wants Failure to tell mistress when The submissive should lose points will result in double loses. Punishment At the end of the week, Monday usually, if The submissive doesn’t have any points left He will be spanked as a punishment, if a punishment session is not able to take place, mistress will decide another punishment she feels is suiting. The submissive will be required to list the things that he has failed at throughout the week while taking my punishment to reenforce the corrective behavior. The submissive will be expected to go down on mistress before and after the punishment session to enforce his submissive place. Having points left only means skipping punishment not that The sub will get a reward. Chastity When directed to, the sub will be locked in chastity. Mistress will retain one key with another being sealed in a signed pouch for emergencies. Use of the emergency key will result in the remaining points for the week being cut in half. The submissive will not be allowed to ask how long he is too be locked, or to be unlocked, or for a ruin or milking. Mistress can choose a game, time period, points system, or unlock can be when she feels like it. Ultimately she gets to decided. Once per week the cage will be removed in the shower with mistress. The cage will be relocked on within 15 minutes. If no release has been given in 2 weeks, Mistress will milk or ruin him in the cage to maintain prostate health. Orgasms The submissive will be awarded orgasms by the mistress as a way of reward excellent behavior. Submissive will weight in once per week on Mondays at the beginning of the day, lose of each 2 lb will reward him with an PiV orgasm. Meeting his stretch goal of 180 lb will result in a week unlock, with unlimited orgasms. Orgasms may be given as rewards for other excellent behavior if the mistress believes it will reenforce good behavior.
Well it is either going very good or very bad. He's not posted since Jan 15, shortly after contract took effect. Hope it is good.
In the beginning of my chastity i had to made a contract between husband and wife. So she had proof i was fully aware of my commitment to her. I signed it but she just keeps it as proof. She is not enforcing it. Chasity contract for husband and wife. This contract has been drawn up by the husband as an expression of love, trust, respect and his full commitment to his wife. It is aimed at growing closer together and improve his marriage. He is granting his wife complete control over his sexual release and offering this freely to his wife, trusting Her to manage his sexual needs. Contract Period: The wife is the only one who can end this contract. The husband agrees to fullfill his obligations to this contract. And also agrees to the contract period the wife demands. The contract starts immediately as soon as the contract is signed. The wife will choose a punishment if the husband fails to live up to the contract. Punishment may be determined by the wife. Husband obligations and rules. 1) The husband has to show respect and care to his wife at all time, support her decisions. And will place her needs above his. 2) The husband submits ownership of his genitals to the wife as Her property. 3) The husband submits to the use and wearing of a locking chastity device to ensure that the wife’s property is kept secure and denies the husband access for self release. 4) The husband is not authorized access to the key(s) to the device. The husband will only be allowed to open the chastity device in the case of an extreme emergency. 5) The husband is never permitted to leave the wife's presence and direct control without the Chastity Device being securely fitted. 6) The husband must commit to prove to his wife he is wearing the chasity device at all times. With time, date and place. So the wife can track the husbands movement to check if he is telling the truth. 7) The husband agrees that only the wife can decide on sexual release. In any form, way or time she sees fit. And can abandon sexual release as a ruined orgasm or orgasm denial at any time. 8) The husband will tell his wife when sexual release is imminent and will ask permission before release. So the wife can decide if its allowed. 9) The husband agrees that unauthorised orgasm or premature orgasm is liable to punishment. The sexual needs of his wife are always more important then his. 10) The husband understands by failing any of his tasks he is liable to punishment as his wife sees fit. Without complaining. 11) The husband will always be presentable in his appearance for his wife. And will do his best to impress her. 12) The husband will promise absolutely to not give into temptation to others. And enjoy sexual release only under direct supervision of his wife. Wife’s obligations 1) The wife understands her husbands full commitment to her needs. And will use his desires to her advantage to make her life more comfortable. 2) Only the wife can decide on when the contract ends. As a married couple stays together for life. So will this contract if the wife decides too. 3) The wife is responsible for the key and or code of the device and will not share this with her husband. 4) There is no obligation on the wife to grant Sexual Release even if She has said that She will; she can decide on the time and manner of the husbands sexual release. And can abandon release as a form of tease and denial. 5) The wife may choose to subject her husband to as much teasing as she likes in order to reinforce his dependence to her. This may include using such methods including but not limited to: a. Tease and denial b. Verbal teasing or stimulation and/or, c. Viewing of pornography, whether together or she will choose the porn for her husband. d. Reading erotic bedtime stories to the wife e. Kissing the wife each night at bedtime, each morning before she goes to work and/or any other time She requests such attention. f. Keyholder massages. g. Household tasks. 6) The wife sexual needs will come before the husbands needs. The husband will support his wife with any sexual act she desires from him. 7) When the husband fails his obligations, the wife will choose a punishment as she sees fit. The wife decides on the severity of the husbands punishments. Signatures Signing of this contract by the husband automatically and instantly confers ownership to his wife under the terms and conditions as laid out in this contract. Both parties need to have considered and be absolutely sure that they are prepared to fulfill their obligations to each other as described within this contract before signing. Wife Husband ------------------------------------- ----------------------------------------- Date:_____________