First time...help with silicone device

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    I recently bought a small silicone cage. When I attempt to put it on, the actual part that's supposed to keep me from accessing my cock, slips upward easily. I can pull myself out at any time, which kills the point

    I tried the smallest cage, but when I'm completely soft I'm too small to keep it on. I basically go from nonexistent when completely soft, basically about half an inch from inverted to about 6 inches when I'm really hard. Am I too small for the type without a piece that connects the bottom of the part over my cock to the bottom of the ring?
     
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    Hello and welcome. There is an area for advice and information on devices. If you haven't already, you may want to post your query there, as not everyone reads the intros. Good luck
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and enjoyable. Finding the proper fitting device is one of the biggest hurdles of chastity. Others have posted about issues similar to yours, so perhaps you can find an approach that will help. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    hi and welcome, any pic to share?
     
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    i bet you got the nub cos that one is like what you say. I think you want a metal cage that come with a spiky thingy and then you wont try and get out.
     
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    I bought the silicone one because it's softer and less noticeable in life. I work from home, so it's not really a daily issue. I do have young kids, and my wife's oldest son is a teenager. I don't want it to be obvious throughout the day to my family (other than my wife of course lol). I was hoping it was impossible to get out, and I mean even when I'm alone and dying. The actual control is something my wife and I get off on.
     
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