Is your relationships a one player or two player game in chastity? And who’s game is it? if you do this long enough you know the game can change over time. Did you always play together or were there times when it went to just a one player game? Did It come back? After a good run, a few wrong turns shut things down. Just wondering if it is time to throw the cage in the bin or if i should keep it around in case someone picks up the key.
In my opinion a relation is always between 2 persons, otherwise it is not a relation any longer. Of course, it is normal in a real life that involvement of one or the other side may sway. But it is still a relation as long as the cage is on its place and the key is possesed by the KH. If not, it is not a relation yet. To be honest, at the very beginning it was sometimes difficult to me to understand a simple fact that our FL relation lasts even if we were angry with each other because of some disagreement. Furtunatelly, my wise Wife understood it always very well. We talked a lot about it and now it seems obvious to me that any quarrel does not stop me being Her slave. And the longer we are in FLR the less bad emotions is between us. Of course, life sometimes is hard and I understand that your things could go really wrong. If your relation is broken you should rather focus on putting things between you both in order and rebuild the chastity relation after that.
If you are doing this while married or seeing someone... and it isn't a "two player game"... I dunno wtf you are doing...