My OH decided on a new game to tease me which is based on luck. She strips me naked and gives me a handjob (intermittently letting go) and when any pre cum dribbles out. She stops and flips a coin, heads mean we stop tails means we carry on. Each time something leaks out she flips the coin again. We managed four tails (a lot of pre cum) but finally bad luck and I got a heads and we stopped. The agony of coming so close to cumming was both pleasure and agony. She loves it as it’s totally down to luck. I’ve never had so much fun being teased!
With a loving partner this has brought us even closer together. From the outside chastity makes no sense but it makes relationships more than sex and all about love and affection.
We aren’t using any device and only using the honour system. It appears I am more self disciplined than I realise (perhaps a catholic upbringing!) . I derive great satisfaction from not cumming and giving her all the control.