ideas for chastity rules and punishment

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    Hello everyone. My last lock up was 4 weeks long. My Keyholder/GF is somewhat new to chastity. She's learning to feel comfortable in her dominant role but she is very turned on by it all. I wanted anyone's opinion and what the next lock up time should be along with ideas for the rules and punishments. Here is what I came up with, feel free to suggest edits or add. Anyone's opinion is appreciated specially other mistresses.

    ok hear are some rules or ideas we have discussed in the past.



    I'm to wear only sexy underwear nothing else to bed when caged

    Wear sexy underwear to work when asked

    Offer to lick her pussy everyday.

    Weekly strap on play or anal toy. any dripping or orgasm must be swallowed

    Teased or edged in or out of the cage daily

    Unpermitted orgasm is automatically 1 week added to current time term.

    Anytime mistresses allows a complete orgasm all cum must be swallowed caged or not.

    If slave refuses to swallow his cum 1 month is added to the current time term or 1 week of swallowing cum consecutively must be completely before the next time term is added

    Mistress can choose how slave gets to try to orgasm. In cage or out of cage, anal or penal stimulation. Ruined or Real

    After chastity time is up orgasm or not... cage goes back on immediately until mistress decides next time term.

    1 week is added to each term regardless of added punishment time.

    Mistress can refuse orgasm at anytime regardless of current time term.

    Time can be added upon misbehavior no less than 2 days no more than 1 week per infraction.

    Ball slaps can be giving as a punishment anytime. refusing to show balls for slaps added 1 day to current term.



    Thanks for the input!
     
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    Are you enjoying chastity play, or wanting to implement a FLR?

    For chastity play, your list looks like fun.

    If you are implementing a FLR, enforcing rules can be a burden for her and a disappointment for you. Generally, a FLR works best if you step back, be patient, and let her lead at her own pace. You will both be happier. Ditch the rules and communicate more.
     
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    Nothing wrong with introducing ideas and topping from the bottom within reason. However, don't push too much at once, and take things slowly. Encourage her to do her own reading and come up with ideas.
     
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    Lots of this has been discussed ultimately she will pick the rules to uphold
     
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    Our relationship as far as the day to day FLR is great. I'm only bring up the link side of things as we are still figuring it out. She is enjoying it a lot. Thanks for the reply!

     
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    I 2nd that, search the forum for rules and punishments, and see what your lady pics out.
     

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