Hello chastity lovers, I m Heintje, male, sub, exhibitionist, 54 yo, live in The Netherlands, you can find me on fetlife as well, that is how i learnt about Chastity Mansion, through a post from Lucy. I have a poly relationship, my wife is starting to like to dominate me and often cages me, i also have online contacts with other Dommes, she knows that and approves of that. Any questions? Please ask!
Welcome! Do you do chastity with multiple dommes, or only your wife? Do you have other, non-kinky partners? I'm always curious how other poly folk mix chastity with their multiple relationships!
Thank you Lady Moon! That s a good question, i m still trying to develop a 'style' in that subject. First of all i want my wife to know everything about my other contacts and i give her opportunity to say no or to steer other contacts. Yes i do chastity for other Dommes too and they may unlock me and dominate me. The poly relation we have makes it easy for me and my wife to know that i m allowed to without having to ask permission. But i want to keep her informed asap of any contact or playtime i have with new or existing Dommes. Yes, i have dates with other non dominant women as well, sometimes kinky, sometimes vanilla. And here comes the tricky part: i m not always sure who to tell about or even show that i m caged, or to tell that i m a sub (no one could tell if i wouldn t tell them), that i like bondage, orgasm denial and that i m very exhibitionistic. It s a constant struggle and sometimes complicated. I often make it easy for myself by just telling or showing it. I m very proud to have a lovely wife that is starting to like to dominate and cage me, and sometimes i think what the heck, anyone may know i m her property and her submissive, i din t want to hide that anymore... Like when we go to swim or the nude beach. I don t even bother anymore to hide the cage or take it off. I m so happy and proud to be her sub!