So I have been self locking for years. My wife has not really been into it, but has been kind enough to tolerate it. The other day after we had showered, I was brushing my teeth, in my panties and chastity. She slapped my ass. Then, as I had done many time before, I left the key on the counter as I went to get dressed. She actually took the key this time and I have no idea where it is. I am so happy to have her get involved like this. Last night al helped her orgasm while I was left locked and in my panties. I had gone up to thank her for taking my keys and keeping me locked. Tonight I went up to thank her for another day locked. I was caressing her, she said she didn't want anything, I told her that I should be nice to her because she is being so nice to me. I also let her know that I had been excited on and off all day from the thought of her having my key. I pray that this will continue, and will be certain she knows that I am very grateful for what she is doing for me.
well done and good luck. Just a word of caution, don't keep going on about it with her, or she will get fed up and give up again. Take is slowly, and don't bombard her. If she says she doesn't want anything, take her at her word. Hope it goes well for you both
Congrats, sounds like a good sign for you.Just let her lead now, and see if she has a direction she wants this change to go in. Good luck and enjoy.
I'd second what @LesterBallard said above. Slow and steady. Show appreciation. Praise her. For the love of God, have other interests... she doesn't a dog humping her leg all day.
So I have been making sure I thank her every night when she goes to bed for another day locked. Today there was some soda spilled in the car, when we got home we were sitting with her Mom. My wife said she had soda on her leg, and told me to get a damp paper towel and clean her leg. I hesitated and she gave me a look. I got up and did it.