today is my first day with a chastity. me and my gf are new to it all. i joined this forum to see what other people are up to and what all they do with their chastity. i just bought the CB2000 and i put it on the smallest ring and the smallest pin because i can pull my cock out on the larger rings. now my balls are turning darker due to tightness. is there a way to stay trapped without buying the point of intrigue? ps i will update my profile as soon as i get some pictures
Blue = bad. As long as they're not blue, you're fine. As far as security goes, check these out: http://keptforher.com/ksd-g2.html
You will usualy find that you can pull out of the back of my CBs to be honest. It's best that you use a bigger ring so you don't cut of the circulation off to your balls. As long as you balls can't slip through the gap between the cage and ring then you're fine. The KSD is a good security insert. I found that the only way to make a CB style device truely secure is to have a PA and use a device called a PA cable.
I agree with SlaveKris, but the PA cable is only a deterrent - they snip easily enough with the right tool. I had no choice other than this once in an emergency. I have read about a DIY method for CBs, a noose arrangement around the glans that tightens if the penis is pulled or slips back. Maybe other members have more specific knowledge about this, but as i don't read about it on this site i guess it might not be any good. A PA piercing is a wonderful thing, don't write it off. There's a lot of advice about them on this site too.
:welcome: to the Mansion, let us know if you need help settling in. There is a huge difference between "blue" and "discoloured". Make sure they are not cold and tingley and keep an eye on them! I'm sorry to say there is possibly a while of discomfort and ring changes ahead, but it will be worth it.