It's been 60 days since my little guy was placed in it's new home. I've been locked in 24/7 since Jan 22nd with the exception of 5 days when I got really sick with the flu and for supervised shaving and cleanings in the mornings. It's been an amazing 2 months, that has really waned my desire to masterbated. I used to masterbate almost every day. My Wife/KH was not on board with this at first, She still thinks it's a bit weird but is amazing supportive. She does like the being the dominant figure more. Last week She giggled at how my caged package swung between my thighs as I knelt on the bathroom floor scrubbing the grout. She enjoys watching me cleaning the house naked. I definitely tend to her pleasure more now, both small day to day gestures as well as sexually. She certainly enjoys knowing that our sex my not result in me orgasming. To date, She has had 6 orgasm and I had had 2. I think Her number is higher, while house cleaning I noticed her vibrator and dildo have been moved a few times. I hope tonight to increase one of those numbers to mark this 60 day achievement, they say 7 is a lucky number. Surprisingly, I don't miss orgasming anymore, and the 2 times I have were mind blowing experience. This has been a great 60 days and I looking forward to many more months of chastity Thanks for reading.
Thanks for sharing Billy J. Hope that with a time that I can help my wife understand and own that I enjoy her leading and being # 1 all the time. Leaking just thinking about it..
Not pressuring her is the hardest part. I used to constantly make what I thought were subtle comments but it actually annoyed my Wife. Lessened learned, now when She does initiate dominance it's extremely arousing.
Hi! My longest time locked has only been a month but am keen to try two months. I find that after the first week locked it gets easier. Is that the case once you past the 1 month milestone or do you start to want release? Him
It does get easier as time passes and as each day passes I find the need to orgasm lessens. I still get aroused pleasing my Wife and if I am not allowed to orgasm to, well that's the way it is. We are currently at a 5 to 1 ratio for the last 68 days. In the beginning I was constantly dripping precum 24 hrs a day it seemed, but that has stopped now. I still have a difficult time with erections when I sleep. I would wake up 2 or 3 times a night from discomfort. I do have the luxury of being on the honor system so I can replace my base ring to a larger one before I go to sleep. And as long as I don't do it too often, I can remove myself from chastity on those nights that the erections are plentiful or larger than usual. Playing with myself then is highly discouraged when I'm out and I obey. Good luck with your next 30 days.
I haven't been able to put together as many days as you guys. Tonight was supposed to be my unlock but I made the error of mentioning I was only on day 4 and my previous record was 5. I also think the Massage and O she had this morning had a lot to do with it. Looking at unlock for PIV on Tuesday now. Counting the seconds. I drop precum like a fountain when I'm pleasuring her.
Billy, it sounds like you and your wife are enjoying things so far. My husband and I are almost 60 days in as well. Our sex life prior was relatively non existent but so far with chastity it has been a complete 180. I wish you both well and I'm excited to see how your journey goes as her involvement increases!!
Good luck and have fun with it. Best you not mention any landmark dates again unless you want to be extended. When we get intimate the mention of if I can cum guarantees I wont.