I have a question for the guys. How tight do you make your cock ring? I don't wear a chastity device but I bought a monogrammed cock ring that says I obey my Queen. I want to wear it all the time but my wife thinks it's not safe. It has a 1 7/8" diameter and I can put a finger through it with no problem when not aroused. I get erections at night sometimes so I wonder if that can cut off the circulation and cause problems? I also have a 1 3/4" inch ring with a hook that my wife attaches a leash too but that is only kept on an hour or two at a time.
everyone is particular for your first CB, buy one with 3 (or more) A-ring : also you can try each and see which is the best for you. try many models (chinese CB aren't expensive) enter the balls must be a little difficult, but simply. it'd burn only when you need to pee (the perfect is never to burn) if it burns immediatly, that's not good it'd burn as soon as you became a little more fat (1 or 2 kg)
amareine - Thanks for replying. It's just a cock ring by itself. I am on the honor system I have tried many different sizes. I do have to do 1 ball at a time with the 1 7/8" diameter. I think the 1 7/8" is fine but I worry about circulation being cut off when I get erections during sleep. For example I have to wait 5 minutes after a tease and denial session to get the 1 3/4" diameter ring off. It gets tight and cut's off circulation when I am aroused (this keeps me erect longer). The cock ring manufacturers will recommend that you only wear the cock rings a short time. But they may be assuming that you are using a tight fit to aid with intercourse. I have never felt burning when I pee
If you can easily get a finger under it when you’re flaccid it sounds about right. The principle is the same with CD base rings. If you can get a finger beneath it, it’s all good as far as allowing for erections. Two fingers usually means too big. But, since you’re not using it to sustain erections, a 2 inch might be more comfortable for long-term wear. It only has to be small enough so that it doesn’t fall off on it’s own.
Hi there! My understanding is that cock rings work when you are hard. They prevent the release of blood from the engorged penis, making it stay harder for longer. Blood flows in, then cannot flow out quickly..... So in essence, they do nothing when you are flaccid! I believe the idea is to get the fit so it's comfortable and non-effective when not aroused. However, when erect, it should maintain your erection and even strengthen it. It sounds like you have it correct... Maybe you could test it in the day by wearing it and getting hard... Then seeing how long it takes you to get soft again...? Nighttime erections are usually stronger (in my experience and opinion only), so you may well wake up feeling very turgid and it may well take longer to get soft again.... But as long as you do, everything is doing what it should be doing!!! Good luck and kindest regards. J.
for the erections in the night : wake up and go to pee if you wear it each night, they will disappear after about two weeks but only one night without and you'll have to do all from the beginning
when you pee, erection falls down it can come back later re-pee and down after about two weeks with the cage EACH night, you'd be quiet
You are a lucky man! For me the night time erections don't go away after a longer period of being locked up. They do get somewhat easier to handle though. Most nights after being locked for a longer period I only have to get up once every night.
I wear an inch and 7/8 ring, 3/4" wide. I wear it out and to bed with no problems. And with PIV sex it makes me last a lot longer.
I still worry. I wear a 1 3/4" when my wife teases me with the vibrator. When she stops it takes a while until the blood starts flowing again (when erection goes away). I am not sure how long I have erections each night. It's not good to restrict the blood flow for long periods of time
Does your cock turn blue? I know that's a bad sign! Other wise it's ok as long as it's not an hour before returning to normal...