My wife is in charge of our marriage. This is what my marriage is like now: I do all the house cleaning. I clean the table and wash all dishes. I do the laundry I do the yard work I work full time I go to her promptly when she calls for me I give her a bath and massage each night. As far as sex - I am allowed to perform oral on her asshole after her massage. She gives me a few minutes of tease and denial each night using a hand held vibrator. Every 2 or 3 weeks she let's me orgasm. I never masturbate anymore. My only orgasms come from my wife using the vibrator. I have been married for 10 years. We have had a formal FLR for about a year. She started liking orgasm control about 4 months ago (I brought it up many years ago). She started liking the orgasm control after we got the hand held vibrator. We are on the honor system. I don't want to wear a chastity device because I think they are uncomfortable and I like to wear small panties. My wife thinks it's unhealthy. So we both agree no device is needed and for the past 4 months I have not masturbated or had an orgasm by myself. My wife is very polite (not a mean dom) and we are in love. I am here for fun chat and to learn. Hope to make new friends here. I am an exhibitionist - love to be nude when others are clothed. I exercise regularly. I have removed most all my body hair below the neck with laser and electrolysis. I shave what hair is left. I enjoy cross dressing.