I have been attracted to dominant women my entire life and have been fortunate enough to have all types of play! Kind of fell into a relationship with a BBW woman turned out that have a dominant streak! She's learned a lot between me topping from the bottom and monitoring the videos that I watch! She took my anal cherry while I was locked up with nipple clamps on and she spank me hard the whole time! I introduced her to Chastity and she does love to use it but always lets me out if I'm backing off enough! The problem is real life is interfering and she sometimes uses this as a punishment for me! I want so bad to submit totally to her but Financial domination is not my thing! Her mood swings are too much and I can't predict what the next move! She has kicked me out of the house before without my keys and even threatened to keep me locked up for up to a year and Jesus me with threats of cuckolding which is a fantasy of mine as well! I guess I'm just looking for support before I go down the rabbit hole!
Think you defo need the trust in place first. At least I would. I trust my KH implicitly because she has earned it. It is what makes it all work as far as I’m concerned. My situation is a bit different from yours as we don’t live together and aren’t planning to. In your situation I think trust would be all the more important. Cheers and luck to you mate.
When it's playtime all is well but then reality hits and it can be frustrating! The record she has kept me locked is 8 days now the last time she let me out I couldn't perform well and she threatened me with 14 days! ! She also knows I'm turned on my cuckold videos and teases me about going out with me locked! This would be a huge step in a relationship I'm not sure I'm ready!
I do know that she cares for me but has a really bad temper and is not naturally kinky like me ! She craves PIV sex but is willing to play my games!
Couple nights ago she told me she had a date with a hot stud and even confirm the date in front of me on the phone! Then she tried on several sexy outfits and model them for me to see which one I thought he would like best! There was no hiding how much this turn me on! She noticed and said that she would lock me up while she was gone so I couldn't play! Well I would be super jealous I have to overcome that because I want her to be happy and play my games!
Don't think with your (locked) dick. Sometimes people have compatible kinks but they are not good partners.
It seems to me that you are heading down a very dangerous path. Trust is an absolute essential and if you don't have that 100% then I would back out of the relationship especially if finances are involved.
Thank you all for your sincere responses! Just a quick update; we're both trying hard to get along but she caught me masturbating last night when I went to sleep! Boy was she pissed! She left me alone for the night but I was awoken by a spanking and orders to lock up for an undetermined amount of time! I know she's been watching the same porn and has learned a lot so I no longer have to top from the bottom she has grown so much it's scary! She loves my ass which is new to me but I'm enjoying it so far! Her daughter is in her twenties and knows I'm in chastity which is deliciously embarrassing but she seems to be cool with that and I'm just enjoying my experience!