Problems getting off with hitachi wand?

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    does anyone else have any issues using a hitachi wand or similar and their ability to get off with it while locked? It’s not that the cage is preventing an orgasm, it’s that it never even starts to feel good. I have tried and tried and no success. Sometimes 30 minutes at a time. Any input is appreciated.

    It’s not a matter of lack of desire either, take the cage off and i can spurt in less than 30 seconds.
     
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    Sounds like the cage is doing its job, preventing ypu from cumming.

    I also can not seem to get off with a Hitachi while caged. But I will admit if feels good though.
     
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    True, I just know a lot of people have no problem
     
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    I had my first wand experience on Tuesday. I was wearing my Bijou. The only intense feeling was at the end of the PA insert. This caused pre cum to be released on 3 occasions. The overall session wasn’t very long, we are still learning.
     
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    Start on a lower setting. If you don't have a variable speed controller either built in or separate, get one.
     
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    A lower setting? Like slower vibrations? I haven’t tried that. Why would that work? I do have a variable controller.
     
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    Because the hitachi wands actually numb you if you use them on the high settings
     
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    Hmmmmmm....i’ll Try it. Thanks for the input
     
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    Solid sheath type tubes on chastity devices can cause the vibrations to be directed around the glans and not into it. A snug fit, with the tube only touching at its base might help. You definitely don't want it, for instance, pressed against your leg. Then try moving the vibrator around slowly all over the tube until you find the 'sweet spot.' You'll know when you've found it. If the vibrator has different patterns of vibrations try experimenting with them. And, as @Danigirl says, it's possible to overstimulate, so also try different power settings. You, or your key holder, will probably find something that works for you.
     
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    I don't have a problem at all. Works every time for me.

    As suggested by @Danigirl maybe try a lower setting to start
     
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    I got the intire thing showed up my Ass.. Didt have any problem cumming then..
     
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    I am trying to minimize the frequency of my orgasms. However, I have tried my wife’s vibrator on my cage a few times. Because the intensity of stimulation is attenuated by the cage, I find it takes a lot of time and effort to achieve an orgasm. I do not always succeed, and even when I do, the orgasm is less intense but more prolonged. On the other hand, the mild, prolonged stimulation and orgasm are both torturous and pleasurable. Also, I remain a little unsatisfied, so I avoid the letdown that I would otherwise experience having an orgasm after a period of chastity.
     
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    never fails!
     
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    It has depended on the cage for us. I was able to mess in my jailbird and one of my PA cages. The other eBay PA cage she tried everything we could think of and in five weeks never was she able to make it happen. That is the one she wanted me locked into before she threw the keys to be lost in the closet
     
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    This is exactly what im going for. Not a real orgasm, but not as unsatisfying as being milked. Just frustratingly in the middle.
     
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    As suggested, slow the speed down to a more rumbly vibration. Start and stop a few times. It is easy to go numb if left on for more than a minute or two. Change the speed as well.

    A great tease is to have your partner turn it on for a minute, then off for thirty seconds. Repeat until subject goes insane. Restraints are recommended.
     
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