HI everyone, I'm J. I used to be a submissive crossdresser (m>f). These days, I'm a happy father in a vanilla relationship, based in Singapore. Do I miss the old days? Occasionally, but I'm also very happy (and busy!) with my life now. With maturity (?), I've also come to realise that feminity doesn't always mean high heels and garter belts (although I do love them!), and that I can integrate some feminity in my daily life without having people casting stones at me. I decided to try chastity while my wife is on a long trip overseas, and I love it! I love the constant buzz it gives, love the feeling of helplessness when the lock clicks on, love the sensitivity it brings to parts of my body I was taking for granted. I'm here to learn more about it, and maybe to find a temporary keyholder until my wife comes back. Although so far (5 days... ok, not that long), I've been much more disciplined than I thought I could be: without the cage on, I feel naked now. I'm surprised how fast my mind adopted it... Looking forward to interacting with you all. Respectfully, J
Welcome to our community. It is a great place to learn and share. I too find that I can't always be as completely fem as I like, so small things do make a difference. Chastity sort of removes my penis from day to day life, so that helps. So do women's clothes that are not overtly feminine. Good luck with your adventures.