Should males be punished for an unauthorised orgasm?

Yes, way beyond the funishment point.

I actually got mad and struggled like crazy to get out. But she ties expertly.

The realization that I was truly helpless and totally at her mercy made an impression on me.

 

It’s really frustrating to know you can’t do a thing and someone is in control. Honestly what excites me the most. Such stores are real exciting when women take real control

 

I ended up in chastity because i kept masturbating and yes getting caught. So it has been perm chastity for me except for cleaning and shaving.
If Mistress decides to let me out for a cum the timing is totally up to her. It has never been Christmas, New Years or bday. I learned very quickly to stop asking when i was going to be let out.
Mistress has mentioned castration quite a few times

 

I agree with @Finn-egan anyone who cheats chastity knowing that punishment will insue is probably wanting the full experience of chastity and corporal punishment (I know I would want to experience it if my wife was into it) and they may even shift their desire from want of orgasm to want of punishment. This is truly topping from the bottom. Therefore a punishment that the sub does not want should be applied (if punishment is how you play).

Longer chastity
Nose on the wall with no shoes on a hard surface
Writing lines
Drop him off and make him run home
Push ups
Sit ups

Notice that these are all self imposed punishments... Why should it be work for her... Unless she enjoys the work.

I also agree that the worst punishment would be to simply stop playing chastity with him for some period of time. No touching. No talking. A real time out.

That's what I think...

 

I completely agree with Mash 2214.
IMVHO, the privilege of orgasm should only be when permission (or ordered) by the Goddess/ Domme/ KH, and if transgressed it should be HER decision what steps are taken.
If not punished, the behaviour is likely to occur again.

So I now have a dilemma.
My Goddess was away on Monday night. I had had a few drinks. My resolve to obey went and when alone in bed I had an orgasm.

She doesn't know.

There is no way that she will know if I don't tell her.

She also knows that I love receiving punishment from her.

Should I confess?

If I do, am I only doing it to influence her into punishing me?

Or am I just admitting a transgression of our rules?

Opinions welcome.

 

how can you if you are locked in a cage ? if you are not locked in a cage then a lot of men do it a lot of times and make a mess on the floor.

 

@cagedjon let's take a look at how committed you are to chastity. You made a promise to not masturbate... And yet you did. You obviously have the ability to do whatever you want... So you did what you want.

As you will see me mention over and over... Chastity play is exactly that... Play... You choose to do or not do whatever you will. Just like in real life you can only give authority to someone else. In this case you took authority back.

What punishment do you believe that you deserve? Why should your partner have to punish you? You didn't cheat her... You cheated yourself. Lying to yourself is the worst offense. So what do you deserve?

 

The best punishment to me is the one my KH stated when I discussed this topic. Any unauthorized orgasm and she just stops the chastity for a period of time. She knows it’s what I want and therefore a punishment of whipping or spankings (which I love) would not be suitable.

 

Exactly yes

 

Without Question you should tell her. That is if your arrangement is that she has complete control over your orgasms. Punishment doesn’t have to be spanking ( if you enjoy it ) their are other things like writing lines, corner time, hard exercises etc

 

Worse would be something like her pulling the end of the cage down between my legs and back to my ass then attaching the cage to an eye bolt in the wall and makein me stand there for a time almost on my toes. Belive me you don't want to put your feet on the floor if you value your balls at all. That my friend is only one of her stricter punishments .

 

if i get a orgasm without permission Madame has said she will cut my klit of ..now i don't know if she is serious about that...BUT i am NOT going to take the chance ..trust me

 

eeeeeeeeeeek. if that dont stop you messing i dont know what will.

 

the worst is ...out of sight out of mind ..so me in bed alone ...no chastity ...OMG its hard not to play :-(

 

My kh knows I enjoy phsyical punishments like a canen or whip.
She was quick to change what punishments entailed when I broke her rules. Now punishment is taking away teasing, not engaging in anything perceived as kinky, or if I really screw up, removing the cage and telling me we are done with this arrangement

 

I don’t really have the chance for unauthorized orgasms because I don’t get released from my cage often. Maybe 2-3 times a year if I’m lucky. If sex is permitted I am numbed and don’t get to experience orgasm. She generally will eventually pull out her vibrator then slowly and methodically push me off to the side while she masturbates to orgasm several times and makes me watch.

This being said I believe any unauthorized orgasm should be met with harsh punishment. My 57 year old wife will put me over her knee and spank me whenever she feel the need to. This is usually when I am being bitchy or complaining. I have to admit that after have received a good spanking my attitude is much better.

 

The answer to the original question should be an unreserved YES! If a couple have gone to the trouble of establishing chastity as a fundamental part of the relationship, then to me, that means the male has relinquished the decision making regarding its sexual pleasure. If the dynamic is to work, then appropriate and severe enough sanction should be part of that. If let slide, then bottom topping by stealth creeps in and everyone gets bored.

 

She teases and takes me to the edge multiple times a day. I have and accident and a ruined orgasm two or three times a month. She does not get mad or punish me, she knows when I'm ready to blow and makes me stop, but sometimes I think she allows me to go too far on purpose. She likes the feel of cum running down the length of her pussy and on to her ass. Of course, I have to do my clean up duty.

 

Punished for unauthorised orgasm? For example:

http://www.orgasmdenial.com/forums/showthread.php?t=3700&page=2

 

I think If she allows sex or she is the one giving the rub go you and you blow before she says it's ok you should get a light punishment. But if you are out of your cage and play with yourself there should be disciplinary action against the male.