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    Hi,

    I'm S and am in a long distance relationship (about 120 miles apart) with A having met 2 years ago.

    I had briefly explored D/s prior to meeting A and 18 months ago brought the subject of chastity up. A had never comes across the subject and we had many late night discussions and decided that that kind of lifestyle would possibly suit us and our relationship so decided to give chastity a try combined with a FLR. My heart was thudding and hands were shaking on the Sunday night I went out to post the keys to her.

    We did shish spells of chastity/FLR. I wanted to give more control over so about 6 months ago we had a try of financial control - where I set up an account that only A has access to, I transferred all my money and arranged for my pay to go straight in there. We initially set a period of time for A to control all of my finances with her deciding what money would be given to me for socialising etc. There were bumps along the way, mainly because I struggled handling things but after a few attempts I think we are on track properly.

    I am once again in chastity, A has full control of all money & has final say on all decisions from whatvmoney is spent to what clothes I eear, it is for the long term this time with no time period set for it to end.

    I feel as contented as I ever have done and fully recommend financial control if you truly trust the person you are with.
     
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    Welcome. Interesting introduction.
     
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    welcome
     
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    Have been a long time lurker so thought I'd do a proper introduction. Plus as I said I've never been happier or more content, life is really good right now :).
     
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    welcome and good for you
     
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    Welcome, sounds fantastic!
     
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