@Ms Amanda treat inspired me, to ask the ladys out here why you have your beloved in chastity. what is the feeling waking up in the morning looking at your boy wearing a cage? does it feel arousing knowing your men being caged while working, or being apart of you? does it give you a feeling of security? is you partner caged when you both going out for dinner, or cinema? does it make you feel sexy knowing your partner next to you is in chastity?
I haven't seen my man to cage him yet, he is due to be caged within the next few days. We live far apart so it isn't easy. We have been an item for circa 9 months and know each other for a lot longer. I am already loving it. Since I sent him a photo of his cage, he has become even more, well, I don't know how to explain it as I've never experienced it before.. I love how he is so excited to be caged, and I love that he doesn't care that I may and will deny him exit from him cage as I shall still be pleased and pleasured sexually. I love seeing him so weak, in love and submissive towards me.. he has a 'powerful' job and is quite demanding and dominant at work. I love seeing his weak side. I love seeing him beg and plead. It makes me feel good. I made him go to work, on a day he had some big meetings,in underwear I wore first and told him to put on without washing. I left them at his and told him to put them on when I sent a message on a morning of my choosing. I told him I wanted evidence too. He did it without hesitation and sent me a photo of himself wearing my knickers to prove he did it. I love being able to control and dominate a man who, to the outside vanilla world, is strong and powerful. I am new to this in the scheme of things and I suspect that my answers will intensify over time.
I love the way he is while caged. Doing this full time is new to us, but the way he pays more attention to me when caged is absolutely divine. Touch is a very big deal to me, and when he's caged he touches and kisses me far more. We've also introduced mistresss/slave aspect to it and I love the control I now have. It's vastly improved our relationship in many ways. One thing that made me ok with him being caged practically full time is that we found a toy that satisfies me more than he does. We've also chosen to practice cuckolding, and while we have an open relationship already, this just adds another level to that. I never thought something like this would make things so much better between us.
Do you plan to feminise and cuckold him/her? I'd love to be a maid to a sexy woman like you and her stud!
That's very kind and I'm flattered (as will he be I am sure)! However we've both said that cuckholding isn't on our radar. I'm already making him wear my underwear to work though
I won't mansplain by giving my opinion but I will post what Mistress has told me. She is a very dominant woman and she tells me that the chastity cage gives her an amazing sense of power over me. She says that the fact that my submitting to having my most prized possession (my penis) locked away by her gives her a rush every time she sees that shiny stainless steel cage on me. She is a very jealous woman and I've asked her if being locked gives her peace of mind on that front. She said it does but not near as much as the power she feels taking my penis away from me.
What do I get from being in full control of my chastised husband? It's very practical. I have a full time servant responsible for all my needs, domestic and sexual. My house is spotless, my meals are cooked and my pussy is tongued. I call the shots and my husband jumps. But I admit that there's also an ego aspect that is very satisfying. It's a total power trip to emasculate a man and put him under my heel. His manhood is locked tight and he has assumed the traditionally female role in our relationship. Literally his only focus is on pleasing me and not incurring my wrath, since his pleasure or pain depends on my whim. It's incredible to sense his nervousness when he thinks I have displeased me, and it's indescribable to know that his manhood is locked so tight that he can't even see or touch it, and that I am the one that took it away from him.
I understand where he's coming from, I give these things to my wife too. It's a relief to be able to submit to her.
For me, @lockit being in chastity gives me a very special kind of attention. It focuses him on me as a person and ensures I am the centre of his world 247. There is no feminising or cuckolding, nor will there ever be. He is a very alpha male and I like it that way. When he is locked he is still a very alpha male but he is one whose focus and attentions are centered on me and my life and how he can make it better. Let's be honest ladies, it feels great to know that all this attention is not just so he can get in our pants. All this attention is because he cannot get in our pants ha ha.
This is my wife's view too, why she has adapted to my chastity. It wasn't her idea but she likes this, the redirection of alpha energy from sex to attentive service and intimacy.