Hello all! I am a noob so please bear with me. I have been trolling the threads over the last week and I have gleened a great deal of info and some enlightenment as well. I have yet to purchase a cage. I am going to try dhgate as a jump off point. After I find a keyholder to serve, I will upgrade. I believe I am going to choose long term chastity with an online keyholder. That is my first goal. I am interested in game play as well but I am going to have to deal with (or without..) that later.
Happy to have you here with us and more about your will of long term chasting. You're on the right path, go for it, it is a long and hard way, but with the help of a Mistress the success will arrive soon.
Welcome. Enjoy your self-exploration while you find yourself a keyholder. Take your time. Don't try too much too soon, or you'll put yourself off. Just ease yourself into the lifestyle.
Thank you all. I am.ambitious! That's kinda how I roll through life. Did some research today towards a dom/KH. She's in Chicago near me. Pro domme at that. I am quite encouraged
Ok... Bad news about dhgate. I purchased a cage from them. I didnt measure properly and ended up with a basering that was way to small. Fine setup but to small. So I go back to the vendor and pay for rhe appropriate ring. They sent it to a non existant address. Great huh? It gets better. So I re-order the correct ring(from the same vendor) and it arrived today. Wrong part. Ring and cage wont marry. Now I ordered the device 2 months ago. Customer service is a joke. Dont deal with these people. Total scam...
You take a chance when you order from these Chinese firms - sometimes good, sometimes not. Best to write off your bad experience and find a firm in the US. I can't advise you of any good firms there as I am in the UK but over here there are two firms that I have used: House of Denial and Toys 4 Naughty Boys. Have a look at their web sites and see if you can find comparable firms in the US. Perhaps someone here will know of some firms that they can recommend.