Do you watch porn while in chastity?

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    This question is mostly targeted at self imposers (since they don't have a keyholder to tease them), but I'd also like to know about guys in a relationship.

    In my second and third weeks in chastity, I was thinking A LOT about sex and watched porn every night. I got excited even about the fact that my cock was locked. Now, in my fifth week, I don't really feel like I want to watch any porn. I'm not sure if it is related to getting more used to the idea of chastity or if it's just that I'm more busy this week.
     
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    Good question caged_controlled. I share a similar view.
    In my pre-chastity solo days, I guess I watched as much on-line as the next person. During self-imposed chastity this continued, though less over time because initially it was fun teasing myself but couldn't do anything about it. Now I am properly locked, I have virtually stopped apart from very occasionally looking at chastity-related stuff, mostly to see how others are experiencing a similar journey. I think it's disrespectful to my KH and I'm finding abstinence is reducing my earlier desires, and I'd rather use my energies in other ways that please my KH.
     
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    I wasn't supposed to look at porn anymore but when we first started out I still watched mostly chastity related porn. My mistress wasn't real big on T&D so I felt I needed some other stimuli. The longer we've lived this lifestyle the less interested I am in porn. I'm more interested in what my mistress wants to do with next. About the only porn related things I look at now are tumblr images that I share with my mistress to see if she'd be interested in trying what the image is portraying. So mostly just chastity related images and gifs now to give us ideas.
     
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    My Wife/KH likes to tease by having me watch her masturbate and lets me take photos. Pretty much the only porn I look at these days are of my wife.
     
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    Porn has become unimportant these days.... without release, and Her constant teasing, there is no need.
    I actually cleaned the dust off the adult DVD album the other day, that was surprising to see.
     
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    Actually the longer I am locked up the more extreme my porn tastes become, that said its been a very long time (over a decade) since traditional sex was on my porn mill, i never search for straight sex. I find reading stories mentally stimulating, mainly about emasculated men. Being that I tend to be a switch and (although my keyholder will never switch), its interesting the longer I am locked the further I go down the sub path...and the more extreme my porn tastes become.

    One of my favorite stories is written by Mrs birch who is a pro disciplinarian in Sydney (which is doubly exciting because thats where I am from) and can be found here http://oshioki.typepad.com/over_her_knee/2005/11/monthly_ritual.html Its called "monthly ritual" and although I would probably not like this to be the only way I ever came and I am not sissy oriented, I find it and such stories a lot more erotic than most video or pictures.
     
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    one of the rules of our contract forbids me watching porn
     
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    I still do. Mostly bdsm and chastity related. I can go weeks without seeing my g/f totally naked and she rarely unlocks me just to tease me. I know it's wrong, but I do it to get some visual stimulation.
     
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    I think stimulation from porn should be also avoided when you start out otherwise your desire to wank your locked cock will drive you crazy and you will fail if your aim is to lock for any period. There are guys out there that use chastity locking just to delay rather than stop them wanking or perhaps as part of a bondage session, so porn would be big part of their play time.
     
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    I'm proud to say that I haven't wanked any single time since my last orgasm (more than one month ago). But I see your point. Last time I tried chastity I didn't last long.
     
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    I don't see a problem with it, I can't orgasm with my cage on. If a wand doesn't work than nothing will(I've tried). And if you can't cum watching porn, than it's not taking any lust or devotion from her.

    In fact it's keeping yourself even more on edge for her.

    I myself don't really watch anything but tumblr pics and vids while I'm browsing something to send her. Knowing I can't cum I'm sure mistress would find it amusing that I'm frustrating myself. I do read erotic stories which seem to actually get me going way more than porn.
     
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    Not as much as I used to . I used to watch porn but not since I resolved to remain chaste . Since starting to lock again about 6 weeks ago I haven't bothered as I am keen to experience denial so as not to rob us of intimacy due to me having a lower libido
     
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    Used to watch plenty, but find little desire now that I have made a commitment and lifestyle change to chastity, or lock up. It robs me of way to much time, energy and desire which is needed to stay focused on my KH, Bride, and all associated responsibilities. It does feel a bit disrespectful as was stated earlier as well. For those with no KH, or self imposed chaste, I can see how the responses would be somewhat different. There is more of the occasional desire to enjoy the activity, watching porn, together, if at all.
     
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    This is a legitimate question and not a dig on your choice, but how can watching porn REDUCE your libido if you are unable to cum?

    I don't watch much porn lately, mostly because it's futile, but have never watched porn and felt less turned on unless it ended in orgasm.

    I guess time spent watching could be a detriment, but so could tv, online activities, etc.

    The only thing I can think of, is people can masterbate with their cage on.
     
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    Only when my holder wants me to suffer in chastity.
     

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