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    Have any of the women here used techniques to discourage erections by anal stretching or ball stretching? Either a large diameter dildo or on of the longer ball stretchers will inhibit that clenching spasm (or "Male Kegel") associated with ejaculation. Many have noted the free flowing but soft penises experienced during pegging but does anyone train specifically to prevent erections (other than by the direct Kalis teeth or points of intrigue approach?
     
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    In my case I have impotence due to the loss years ago of one testicle combined with medication I am on for cholesterol and blood pressure. My wife encouraged me to take the highly effective stuff, e.g. the kinds most likely to have impotence as a side effect.
     
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    My Wife likes me getting contained erections so she wouldn't want this to happen to me.
     
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    Hmm stretching my balls away from my body makes my orgasms stronger and nicer, for me anyway.
     
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    I instantly lose my erection when she starts to penetrate my ass with her strap on.
     
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    My wife and Jasmine KH are of the same mind. She loves to see it get frustrated pushing against the steel and how uncomfortable it is for me.
     
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    I have the same experience with a larger strapon - the same muscles that make my penis spasm when I ejaculate are the ones that allow my anus to "clench"...........when I am fully stretched it is impossible to come or even maintain an erection. Of course it's also impossible to maintain a "macho" image with a woman after she has "taken" one in this manner and so I think it's an important part of opening up (no pun) and becoming vulnerable to her and accepting her control.
     
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    The only thingy that i have had stretch is my tongue and i can touch the end of my nose with it.
     
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    i have two cages. one allows no erection and the other allows for me to get fairly hard. My wife loved me wearing the one that allowed for some sort of boner. She would tease me while I wore it, and since it allowed for a small erection it left me unbelievably turned on. She would have me make her cum and then start teasing about letting me out to jack off. Of course rarely letting me do that. She would literally have me begging and crying for release. I would not get like that wearing the cage that prevented any kind of erection.

    She had no intention of preventing my erections, just preventing my release.
     
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    Hello S.
    No "training" here but my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder does seem to get some twisted satisfaction out of knowing my device is small enough that it keeps me from getting nothing more than a small swell that melts and goes soft upon the resistance of the tube portion of my Holy TrainerV2s at which point I am then usually limp and leaking...and anal penetration...the thought of it makes me swell right beforehand BUT as soon as the invasion begins I shrivel and go limp and leak as well without any type of penile stimulation. Even before I was locked perpetually I would shrink and go limp upon commencement of slipping in a dildo or plug without any kind of stimulation to my penis. Even at that with stimulation I would still only be able to maintain a weak erection until only moments before orgasm when I would then get very hard and spasm on the anal toy as I ejaculated but VERY quickly go VERY limp.

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    My Mistress makes me wear a spiked ring attachment to device when im not with her to ensure I dont have any unauthorised thoughts. The spikes bring me to tears if I get hard with the ring in place.

    She takes it off when im with her if she wants massages etc
     
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    we also have a few cages. normally he is kept in the Attica 3. its pretty small. about an inch and a half long, not very wide. just enough room for his liitle thing. this is his normal cage, so if he gets excited for any reason, its an instant reminder who he belongs to. one of the others i like, i dont know the name, but i use it when i feel like giving a little torture, or spankigs sometimes. he can grow to about 3 inches, thats it. hes barely over 4 when erect anyway, so thats almost all the way. i love seeing a full cage and hearing the moans. i swear i could almost cum from that. i normally will let him in the bigger cage when he is servicing. its fun to sometimes give the little blue pill when hes in the cages too!
     
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    Little blue pill is a cruel twist. Its a struggle to cope with long term chastity in a normal situation never mind this added torment. Hope you are enjoying his added anguish!!
     
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    Jasmic, right you are!
    It is our case too. The favourite view of my Mistress is my struggling erect cock in KTB.

    Kind regards,
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    My wife only did this one time, i think even she felt bad about it afterwards. I am fairly sure she enjoyed my torment while it was happening. If the desire and boner had only lasted the night..... It lasted well over a day. I was crazy horny. She loved her orgasms, my crotch hurt. Never got a special reward. She held out for the week and then let me fuck her. Of course I had to jerk off to cum.
     
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    I love my impotence and finasteride certainly is keeping me nicely femme. x
     
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    My HT v2 short tube prevents any erections for me and just leaves me with a dripping cock and a case of blue balls.

    I should tell my g/f about taking a little blue pill while locked up, would make for a great punishment.
     
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    How do you get a hold of the blue pills?
     
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    Anything in my anus encourages erections. I have a pair of beads that gets me hard instantaneous. Unfortunately what you are asking would not work on me. It would have the reverse affect.
     
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    I had gotten several of them from a friend of mine. I think he got them the normal way.
     
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    @Ginolicious
    Yah...I enjoy a good strapon fucking but never get hard from it. I especially love the wife getting off as she's pegging me. I've not tried beads; wifey has but is undecided about them. Recently we both tried the Njoy Pure Plug. It was interesting. I felt every millimeter if it going in and nothing afterwards- couldn't even tell it was I there. I tried the medium. Wifey tried the small, and didn't feel a thing going in- in fact she didn't know it was in her! But once in her, she felt it and it felt real good.

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    A friend gave us one for Father's Day, but we've yet to use it. If it ain't broken, no need to fix it. I already take too long to orgasm- don't need to extend it unless I'm in a situation that requires me to be hard forever. But we've no plans of hitting up an orgy this summer. It'll probably end up getting used whenever wifey finds a couple with a bi male and wants me to get together with him.
     
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    viagra doesn't keep you from orgasming. That is what the key holder is for. I just gave me the hard on from hell, her teasing had something to do with it too.
     
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    So you stay hard after cumming?
     

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