Help me tame that disobedient, mischievous sub....

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    #26 retford, Feb 15, 2016
    I would suggest controlling him via his cute little panties if you are out and about and he is shooting his mouth off such phrases as "Don't get your panties in a bunch" "someone has put their big girl panties on today" will scare him witless fearing someone will put 2 and 2 together.Whispering in his ear "Would you like me to tell your mother/father/best friend what colour panties you have on today?" will also bring him into line.

    Slipping your thumb into the waistband of his jeans and playing with his frilly panties will also remind him he is vulnerable to exposure particularly if you start pulling the panties up above the jeans.The fear of someone seeing will soon bring him into line.

    Stop letting him buy them online make him ask the prettiest sales girl for sizing advice for himself.

    Take some pictures of him in panties make sure he is aroused the thought of people seeing him with a hardon in panties will make him behave.

    Tell him you will cut his panties up if he does not behave I doubt this interest in panties is a new thing he has probably always taken the opportunity to try on panties every chance he has had.Having his own panties that he has picked and that fit him will be hugely important to him.

    If he behaves tell him you will buy him panties on his birthday Christmas and fathers day but only if he can stop acting like a dick.

    These were my thoughts I hope they help.
     
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    #27 ChasteHubby2015, Feb 15, 2016
    "Stop letting him buy them online make him ask the prettiest sales girl for sizing advice for himself."

    That's beyond humbling, I would absolutely die of embarrassment.
     
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    #28 retford, Feb 15, 2016
    Do you think you would behave if you were told this would happen if you didn't?
     
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    #29 Caged Wolf, Feb 15, 2016
    Mistress Wolf uses the #! control, at least in my humble opinion. Understand we live FLR 24/7/365, and part of the agreement was that there was NO going back:

    She has taken away my rings, withheld sex, but the outright worst punishment was totally closing me out. No intimacy, to touching (either way), and very little conversation, just the minimum to get by. i was ready for the talk telling me to find another place to live.
     
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    #30 ChasteHubby2015, Feb 15, 2016
    Yes! I've seen how pretty some of those young women are who work at those places, they already make me nervous as it is when I'm chaste and horny and they're dressed all sexy, so I can't imagine a scarier punishment, especially for a young man like me.
     
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    #31 Minimistress, Feb 15, 2016
    Certainly, all suggestions welcome! ;-))))
     
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    #32 Minimistress, Feb 15, 2016
    Harsh!!!!!! But if it works........
     
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    #33 Minimistress, Feb 15, 2016
    Thanks for the tips, some cracking tips I especially like the tip 'don't get your panties in a twist'!!!! That would really make him cringe! Thanks
     
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    #34 Minimistress, Feb 15, 2016
    No! I am still learning but finding my way! ;-)
     
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    #35 Minimistress, Feb 15, 2016
    Thank you all for your guidance......some really useful tips that I will be sure to try:D
     
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    #36 Newbieoldbie, Feb 15, 2016
    Genius
     
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    #37 Jasmic68, Feb 16, 2016
    It seems to me that there are two types of punishment. There is the type which slots into chastity 'play', the sort where you are made to go and buy underwear and so on. Then there is the real, absolute punishment as endured by @Caged Wolf. I know which would work with me. Being denied access, care and attention by my Wife would be devastating. Pretty much all the others would be embarrassing at most and tittilating at best.
     
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    #38 Aiki, Feb 16, 2016
    Exactly. Giving a sub the kinds of "funishment" (spanking, embarrasment, etc) they desire when they have gone against your wishes and desires is a rookie mistake. This is why I always I have a good idea of my subs actual likes, dislikes and limits. Certainly for subs you are in a real world relationship with withdrawal of connection/emotional support should be the measure of absolute last resort. Instead use someting you know they actively dislike but is not a hard limit.

    There is an old saying in old guard bdsm/leather circles "Never punish a masochist with pain"

    http://dominantguide.com/108/i-coul...t-too-much-alternative-punishments-that-work/
     
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    #39 Newbieoldbie, Feb 16, 2016
    This is my thinking.
    No access.ie no me .until im ready.
    And no care and attention, in that hes told to dress himself and dumped coldly and uncerimoniously somewhere and let to fend for himself as a over exaggerated member of the opposite sex.

    I just love the humiliation mixed with fear.
    And makes for great sex.... when I'M ready.
     
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    #40 Minimistress, Feb 16, 2016
    People........... I found that my paddle brush delivers a sting harsh enough to make him want to obey now...... happy days...... I used 'edging' last night as a different punishment but the down side is.......... I would have given my right arm to sit on ito_O PROBLEM : all of this journey is making me unsuitably freaking HORNY :rolleyes:o_O:eek: LOL
     
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    #41 Jasmic68, Feb 16, 2016
    Sounds like a win win situation to me!
     
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    #42 jemima, Feb 16, 2016
    that must be nasty on knees and make all littles holes come in the skin.
     
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    #43 Minimistress, Feb 16, 2016
    I use the back of it but I am informed that it stings more than anything else I have used...
     
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    #44 Minimistress, Feb 17, 2016
    Well...... I took him to the edge quite a few times just now and I pushed the boundaries a little, he came so for his punishment- I believe this is worth sharing- I rode him until he was uncontrollably sensitive but I took what was mine! Genius punishment I think:rolleyes:
     
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    #45 Sissyslut73, Feb 17, 2016
    im getting a shock collar for my balls this weekend!!
     
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    #46 Sissyslut73, Feb 17, 2016
    i get to tell the sex shop worker im in chastity and a sissy bitch this weekend for punishment
     
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    #47 Minimistress, Feb 17, 2016
    My punishment isn't working, I need some serious advice from an experienced Mistress, he has been useless basically. I need to make this serious now to bring him into line. Calling on all Mistress'............. I can offer details if needed to determine the correct action.....
    Thanks in advance............. x
     
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    #48 Minimistress, Feb 17, 2016
    Would it be a good idea to make my sub keep a journal on here so that he can put his view across???
     
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    #49 Jasmic68, Feb 17, 2016
    I find it very helpful to put my thoughts down in my journal. That said I am very obedient and actually wish my Wife was more demanding and wanted more from me. As I have said before she is far too nice!
     
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    #50 Minimistress, Feb 17, 2016
    Maybe this is my downfall! I am desperate to break him though, I am depending on some sound advice from a strong Mistress, watch this space.........;)
     
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