It has been a pretty sordid start to 2016. Too much porn and far too much m*********n. I work away from home in the week which gives far too much 'ME' time in the evenings. It is too easy to drift of on the internet to Tumblr and to the tube sites. A little tittilation, leads eventually leads to the loss of willpower. My Wife has now set a goal. No orgasm for me until Valentines day. I have set my own goal – porn for only 1 hour, on Thursday evening. And i need to do something about the security of my device. I have found a site that sells different sizes of base rings so hope to find one that is small enough to be escape proof but big enough not to cause sores. I probably also neeed something through my PA. So – wish me luck. Any advice and encouragement would be welcome.
You need to find something that both occupies your mind in the evening and also brings you peace. I know how difficult this is as my Wife and I lived a long distance relationship off and on for most of our marriage so far (25 years.) We only finally moved in together for what we hope is for good last summer. I also know how easy it is to become addicted to porn, both of a 'normal' variety and chastity themed. Used in the wrong way it can become toxic. I was recently reading a blog of a couple who appeared to have everything. Daily tease sessions, She having multiple daily orgasms, he using strap-ons to pleasure her, constantly licking her to multiple orgasms. I had a really bad week last week and realised this was being caused by my own feelings of inadequacy fuelled by how wonderful their life seemed to be. I have not stopped reading the blog, but I have limited myself drastically. I do not know what you can do to occupy your mind as I do not know what interests you have or what your work away from home entails. I hope you find something to help soon.
Well. I can't help on the no porn thing much - I tried nofap once, it lasted about a day... Just can't do it. love porn. although, when I feel particularly masochistic I may one day suggest that my wife enable the child filter on my pc and laptop and set the password herself... but I've not been brave enough to do that yet. as for the security of a device, if you have a PA then I can highly recommend the steelworxx steelheart one chastity device with PA fixing option (I also have the integrated lock option too, though that is more optional.. personally I prefer the less clanking though).
Steelwerks is a great option. I used to have hundreds of captions and femdom/cuckold videos on my phone. Goddess took them away, and put parental controls on my electronics. She's got the only key to my device, can't remove it without bolt cutters. We were supposed to wait until valentines day, but it was pinching real bad. Part of me hopes she postpones my next unlock. I get by when I see how happy she is that I do all the chores. She never cooks anymore. Never has to bend over and put shoes on, to paint or trim her nails. She relaxes and let's me bathe her and brush her hair. All the while locked away. She cums a hundred times better with my tongue and sex toys. Happy wife/Goddess, happy life
Hmmmmmm. Thanks for the comments...... Been trying to keep myself busy in the evenings. The oven has never been so clean.
Ah I have no problem on that front.... I lack the specialist tools required to clean our oven, to whit, a bristle brush.