Need tips, Going to release him long distance tomorrow.

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    #1 Dogchasecats, Oct 22, 2015
    Well tommorow is day 10 for him. I am far away but was going to walk him through masterbation and unlocking over the phone, but we were both too busy. The idea is I have to be present so the oxytocin release at climax so he gets bonds me to him. Also we are using the 7 day testosterone thing. He texted me and was very sexual and aggressive. He is not like that usually. Any tips I can use for tommorow night? He says he may have his web cam set up so I can watch him over the Internet. He has the silver suitcase with all the sex toys in it ( except for my hitachi magic wand) I want him to lay out all the toys on the bed. There are a few dildos like the vixen creation nexus. There is also some sort of Sasha grey sleeve with a mouth on it. Not much else that I can think of. I need some toy advice and any fun tips to try on him. I will be watching by cam and he and I will be on the phone. Let me know your thoughts. I might post this to the group.
     
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    #2 Mascara^Snake, Oct 22, 2015
    If he is really so testosticated that he is being rude and aggressive then I would inform him (once he's on the phone with his toys spread out) that you've had an unexpected dinner invite and you're rushing to get ready and you only have a few spare minutes. Tell him you're going to have to call it off for tonight. Then I would be open to discuss a suitable alternative time but not actually commit to anything before having to rush off. Be sure to mention his locked condition and how sexy it makes you feel and how you like it and how he can still use all his toys but there will be no unlocking just now.

    "I have to go darling kiss kiss"
     
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    #3 Dogchasecats, Oct 22, 2015
    He was not really rude, just far more interested in sexy banter and flirting than normal. He seemed to really be worked up and more aggressive in flirting, like he was VERY interested in me. This is encouraging and I am optimistic on this having some real benefits.
     
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    #4 tiny_tim, Oct 22, 2015
    Just a thought... a long distance keyholder would make me JO (when released) to a pair of her worn panties. Nothing binds a man to a woman more than orgasming with her smell on his mind.
     
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    #5 guest 2942, Oct 22, 2015
    yeah i think you should get him all worked up and then ask him to wait for you lol. Make him cool down and lock back up. Tell him how sexy it would be to save all of that pent up sexual frustration for when you get home and you can enjoy it together.
     
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    #6 Ms_Jasmine, Oct 22, 2015
    Grins.....oh the fun of getting them all worked up and.......DENIED..... (Insert key locking sound)...
     
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    #7 starflyer, Oct 22, 2015
    I agree, get him worked up then deny him till he gets home
     
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    #8 Wendygirl, Oct 22, 2015
    I would definitely want to stay locked up till I got home and had my fun with you If I was him.

    What is the fun of a few minutes play time and then the post climax blues and no cuddles . Little if any at least for me playing in a hotel room on my own no fun.
    Keep him safe till you get him in your hands then let the fun begin
    With one rider no stopping or sudden denied orgasam stuff . Because the next time he will get out while away and the bond is broken.
    Xx Wendy
     
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    #9 Dogchasecats, Oct 23, 2015
    I read about handcuffing him to the bed. I have two sets of cuffs in our silver suitcase and also these little metal tie down prices on each side of the bed posts. I have only restrained him once several years ago but he had a instant erection so I know he likes it. Thanks for all your advice, good ideas here. Very good.
     
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    #10 Wendygirl, Oct 23, 2015
    Hi
    May I just underline that bit . I did it several years ago so I know he likes it.
    You may like to climax or eat chocolate cake but a gap of several years? ?

    Hope you have not lost the keys to the handcuffs since then :)

    Xx Wendy
     
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    #11 Locked126, Oct 28, 2015
    I say tease him, tease him and then deny him lime crazy after getting him begging you for a release. I sure hope you two had fun :)
     
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