I want to know how I can use a vibrator and have ruined orgasm. My partner wants to get a gspot vibrator and just leave me in it to have a ruined orgsam while I am tied up IS the possible what's the best way as I dont want to have a full orgasm
Have you ever been milked? It's like an orgasm except that you don't ejaculate. Also, there's a strong element of humiliation when your Mistress uses a prostate massager on you and forces the milk out beyond your control. As usual, Mistress is always in control of everything sexual....
My mistress used her hitachi magic wand on me while I was locked and as I was about to cum there was one small squirt and the rest just dribbled out. Was in complete shock as I wasn't expecting it.
i am milk every 4 weeks and it don't spurt out it just dribble and its a bit like having a pee. It does help you tho. Aske her nice and polite and She might do it to you.
using the hitachi while locked up for me produces normal orgasms. Ive read of others who have ruined ones so I guess we are all different in that aspect. I guess it depends on how long you leave it on the device for stimulation. A ruinded orgasm is achieved by stopping stimulation right before the orgasm starts. Usually the pleasure goes away immediately and the cum dribbles out leaving you with an empty unsatisfied feeling if done right.
We've even had a little "Accidental milking" recently. Mistress had me insert a RC Vibe butt plug to go out for dinner and, becasue I was sitting in a certain position, when she buzzed me, my prostate was vibrated and I drained right there in my panties! What an unexpected mess! Now, when going out with the plug, I must wear a kotex pantiliner in my panties or put a condom over my tube! The pantiliner option helps me to feel even more feminine!
My perfect ruined orgasm was in the middle of a 34 day orgasm denial this past June. She had invited me inside her, and taunted me... tempting me to cum. Each time I pulled out and kept from spilling. I was leaning over her, kissing her passionately on the lips and devotionally on her cheek. She had to tell me my wet cock had spilled out all over her shaved mound. I was completely surprised. Thick white cum everywhere, and I had not felt a thing. Not a twitch or spurt or clench. She confirmed I hadn't had an orgasm and was happy about making me spill without even knowing. I guess I was feeling wet from her, and enthralled in my adoration. I didn't orgasm or even ejaculate once until over two weeks later. Basically, a ruined orgasm for me is a continuum. She will abandon my orgasm but sometimes I will spurt and that feels good. I try not to clench down at all, so there's no pleasurable sensation. She's tapped my frenum with one finger until I spill, and that's extremely frustrating. A half orgasm perhaps. She really enjoys those. That one from June was perfectly ruined. I must have had a lot of hang time. You should stop stimulation near the edge and wait for 6-10 seconds for the cum to just spill out. It's a beautiful thing to watch in absolute stillness and silence. It is incredibly frustrating. You'll know it's ruined by how it affects your libido too.
@jemima , in my old ball trap cage i was still hard. 90% of the erection is inside my body. So no I was not small and flaccid when that happened.
The problem with pantiliners is they aren't absorbent enough for the umm prostate fluid. You probably need towear a nice inco pad - Abena Delta-San 6 in a nice tight pair of big panties will stop any accidents from showing .