Happy to be here, and hope to contribute as much as I learn here. We began this adventure with the New Year, and after seven weeks with L holding my key, we both realize we may be on to something here that renews our intimacy and deepens our love. We're old enough to know it's a process, and smart enough to know how important honest, open, and frequent communication is going to be. We spent a lot of years putting Us behind all we had to do, relegating our sex to a back burner, and dealing with my eruptions of anger, frustration, and resentment along the way. We needed something to happen that would bring our sex to a front burner, and keep it there. I knew that if I continued to search for my fulfillment outside of Us - through pro-domme sessions, porn, and frequent masturbation - I could never expect Us to be on the same page. That in order for Us to get where we wanted to Us to be, I would have to go all in. So now I am. So far, so good.
Welcome. My KH and I are fairly new to this; it is a bit less satisfying for me due to her basically vanilla attitude towards sexual activity. But she is trying and so far so good for just starting out. Hope your journey is a rewarding one.
Welcome to the Mansion, I am sure you will find a wealth of information here to help you enjoy this fabulous world.
Good luck to you and yours, deejay. We have the same issues, but this new game is different somehow. She's always had the figurative key to my heart. Now that she holds the literal key to my sex, and is spending time studying the concept, things are changing...for the good.