My journey into a cage.

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    #26 jonnygrand, Jun 17, 2014
    You're a very kinky girl ;) A locked Mistress sounds like such an amazing concept actually. Have fun with your next lockup... Do you have a lockup period in mind?
     
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    #27 Rachel Cash, Jun 17, 2014
    I don't have a set amount of time, I'm actually pretty sure I won't have control of the time period.
     
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    #28 elliot_r, Jun 17, 2014
    You won't have control of the time period? Does this mean you have someone that is controlling the keys?
     
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    #29 Kontraband, Jun 17, 2014
    Who's the lucky KH going to be?
     
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    #30 Rachel Cash, Jun 29, 2014
    So I was being my usual bubbly self today. Jumping around and singing and being happy. I sort of forgot what was going on beneath the clothing while I was talking to my mom. As I was jumping around there was the distinct clack of the lock on the plastic and Is topped really fast. My mom just looked at me with some weird sly grin...I've left my device out on my desk for about a week now and I'm sure she's seen it...My life just got completely awkward.
     
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    #31 LisaTV, Jun 29, 2014
    You never cease to amaze me.
     
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    #32 guest 2942, Jun 30, 2014
    you can wrap a rubber band around the lock a few times to stop the clanking, for future reference lol.
     
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    #33 Max51, Jun 30, 2014
    Yep, a rubber band does the trick but change it every so often and do not wear it into the shower. The last one I used turned into melted rubber and it was a chore to scrape it off and it stained the brass lock. I started using a small plastic coated luggage lock which was much lighter and then I bought 100 serial numbered plastic locks. The weight of the brass lock caused me some pain after continuous wearing.
     
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    #34 jonnygrand, Jun 30, 2014
    I personally think it's kind of kinky to hear the sound of the lock from time to time, especially in public, I think most of the time I'm more aware of my cage than anyone else... So it's cool you need the sound to remind you it's there.

    How long have you been locked up so far if I may ask?
     
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    #35 chastesoon, Jun 30, 2014
    I know that sound well! Try using a scrunchy. Even the vinyl cover on my pink lock clunks a bit.
     
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    #36 Kontraband, Jun 30, 2014
    I used electrical tape on the lock, takes a lot of the sound out of it.
     
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    #37 barbara desmonsche, Jul 1, 2014
    LOL....clanking while jumping.

    i have found that the elastic hair bands with the material over the elastic is a lot nicer than a plain old, rubber band. They come in different colors, won't pinch the skin & last longer, too. i have always had them around because my own hair is long enough for a pony tail & that's how i usually wear it.
     
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    #38 Rachel Cash, Jul 1, 2014
    Thank for the advice, problem solved. On another note though I made a post saying that I was keyholding for someone, since then my inbox has been raped with people asking me to do the same for them. The short answer to all of you is no. I'm generally a sub. I'm pretty much in 24/7 lockup right now, and domming is already difficult. I'm sticking to my one person.

    It's sort of difficult being all dominant and stuff when any sort of arousal is going to hurt you as well. I have to keep extremely calm, and approach the situation mentally as if I was bored, even though I enjoy it. Ironically my sub is turned on from the site of me in chastity. Strange contradictions.

    On the submissive side, I was having issues with my domme. She was very new to chastity play and didn't quite know what she was doing, but things got real last night. She not only learned how tease and denial worked, but she offered me a deal, 24/7 chastity with frequent orgasms. The longest I've ever been in one is 3 days, and then I would always take a break. Being locked as a lifestyle is sort of a scary thing and I'm not sure I'm ready for it, but I said yes anyhow.
     
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    #39 Kontraband, Jul 1, 2014
    Rachel; you've already shown you are a person of great strength. I have no doubt you can manage 24/7 chastity with frequent orgassms and I can not tell you how jealous most people on here would be of your situation. Just enjoy the ride and keep Lisa frustrated as much as possible.
     
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    #40 the odd tease, Jul 6, 2014
    of all things, that 'clack'... we all know EXACTLY what it is, most others probably just wonder what is in our pockets... lol
     
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    #41 LisaTV, Jul 6, 2014
    I was thinking that too, but staying with frriends I sometimes forget when i've just had a shower walking around in a dressing gown and no panties
     
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    #42 Mistress B, Jul 6, 2014
    What's a little "clack" between friends. ;)
     
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    #43 LisaTV, Jul 6, 2014
    Sometimes i don't want to admit to my little "clack" :p
     
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    #44 the odd tease, Jul 10, 2014
    my my, if you can walk about in panties, why worry over the clack?
     
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    #45 Rachel Cash, Jul 10, 2014
    I'm a girl, its natural for me to walk around in girl underwear...with a device it would just be stupid lol. I'm not game with outing myself, and I only walk around in my undies in front of my mom.
     
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    #46 member0368, Jul 20, 2014
    Domming someone while locked in a cage is delightfully frustrating, I suggest you give it a try.
     
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    #47 Rachel Cash, Aug 12, 2014
    So I've had my Domme phase and I want to talk about something that has kind of upset me. I was keyholding for someone on here and we had clear boundaries set. I breached those boundaries unintentionally and emotionally confused my sub, and I didn't understand why. I'm not going to reveal the identity or the reason, but this is a reminder to all of you subs that you have a safe word. You can use it, and if you do it won't end the D/s dynamic or the arrangement. I feel sort of like a bad person because I was completely unaware of the line I was crossing. We have discussed this, and worked it all out. But don't ever be afraid to safe word.

    On another note, Lockup again tomorrow! :D
     
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    #48 Rachel Cash, Oct 7, 2014
    So here recently the thrill of chastity has been....changed for me. I'm in a bit of a rut in my life and I've been off of my hormones for a few months. I still look the same and all, but I now have full and complete function of my...member....and I'm very easily aroused. The male hormones are kicking my butt. This however let's me experience chastity from a male angle now....something I have yet to experience, I was already on hormones when I got my device.

    I'm not sure how I feel about associating anything about my body with the term "male", but it's what's happening. So now the question is do I do the keyholder thing and enjoy this rare and possibly only time to experience this or wait until my body normals out....I don't know...if I can handle the constant erections :O.
     
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    #49 LisaTV, Oct 7, 2014
    An interesting and unique dilemma. I'd give my opinion but I'm sure you can guess.
     
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    #50 xcitedsisssy, Oct 8, 2014
    Rachel it will be interesting to hear how you feel once your body levels out without outside influence. Please keep us posted on your readjustment.
     
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