CB6000 Chafing Under Scrotum Problem

Hi,
I'm new to this chastity thing. Well, let's just say to being locked in chastity for longer than a few hours. I came to this forum to seek help for my situation, which is noted in the title of the thread. Now, let me tell you my problem and we'll see if somebody can help me, as I've been trying to find other sources online but so far haven't had any luck. I've had a metal cage for a few years now (Stainless Steel Chastity Cock Cage from ExtremeRestraints), but rarely wear it because 1) it chafes my scrotum with the ring size that fits best. I thought this was because of the hinge on the bottom of the ring, but my scrotum still gets extremely irritated, even when I'm flaccid. Also, 2) if I'm completely flaccid, it tends falls off my balls (the next size down, or smallest, won't even fit around my balls).

So, my wife and I decided to get back into chastity play, but decided to go with something in plastic, so after much consideration and research, we decided to go with the CB-6000. After I received the device and we had it on, I discovered that it was very comfortable with the original ring and spacer my wife chose. I put it on in the morning of Friday last week and wore it until the evening of Saturday. Now, all day Friday, I could hardly even tell I was wearing it, but at about 1:30AM Saturday, I woke up to discomfort to my scrotum (as I was having my nightly erections). It was intense and very pleasing, as... well you would know the feeling. Anyways, after my wife had her fair share of teasing me a couple hours leading up to our experience that evening, my scrotum was in so much pain that's all I could think about. I didn't notice any discoloration other than the norm, but even when I got less hard, it continued to be really painful right under my balls. It felt like someone was pinching down there with all they had.

Anyways, I just thought that maybe I had to break it in so I held off for one day. On Monday morning my wife had left me instructions to put it back on when I woke up (she was at work). I was able to wear it semi-comfortably with the same configuration as before for a couple hours, but it started to get very irritated again in the same place. Luckily she left the key in case I needed to change something, so I upgraded to one ring-size larger, and put in the smallest space there was. This didn't work for comfort either, so I upgraded the spacer to the next size up and decided I wouldn't change it again just to see if I could get used to it. I did get used to it...until my wife got home and we went on a walk. We took about a 45 minute walk and by the time we got home, not only the scrotum pain, but a new, and sharp pain in my gut (bladder?) had risen and become severe. I wasn't hard at all and the only thing I could think about was getting the darn thing off my balls. It was pure torture. Luckily, my wife took it off that evening. I have worn it since a couple hours at a time with similar, severe pain (not bowl pain) under the scrotum.

From what I've researched about chastity, is that normal, day-to-day wear should be comfortable for the wearer unless he is hard, then it should be painful. The latter works very well, but the day-to-day wear hasn't seemed to work for me, as I would like to be more active physically, but this is causing a hinderance at this time.

So the questions I'm asking, are:

1. Is this something that I should try to man up get used to? There is chafing under the scrotum, but no skin breaks or bleeding. Also, I'm a bus driver and can't be thinking about passive scrotum pain all day as I'm trying to be concerned firstly with passengers' safety. I understand if it's a sexy thought, or I have a turn-on, but not being turned on, I feel that this could be corrected somehow.
2. Does anybody else experience similar pain under your scrotum from normal wear? Bladder pain?
3. From your experience, what would you say would be the causes? How would you correct it?

Thanks for any input I can get! I really enjoy the game and so does my wife. I don't want to let myself down by letting her down.

-Hos

 

Thanks for the input. I might have to try the surgical tubing, as it sounds a lot more comfortable than hard plastic. I'm really not sure if I have a "knock off" device. I actually bought it from an Amazon seller for about $40 (Which screams "knock off", but It looks identical to the real deal (as far as i've researched). Under the ring is smooth other than the tiny bump where the plastic was fused in the factory. My wife/kh told me we'd wait a couple days and try again.

 

Thank you also for your response. It's funny that your combo is 3rd ring longest spacer because I pulled out of that last time I was having intolerable pain. I asked my wife if I could use the largest spacer because it was hurting on the 2nd smallest. Would you suggest maybe trying to go down in ring size? I'm worried because my problem is with my ball sack. Lol...