Hello A/all. i am needtobechaste and a new member here at Chastity Mansion. i am pleased to make Y/your aquaintance and hope to learn as much as possible from Y/you all.
Welcome! This is a friendly little community. Tell us about yourself and don't be shy about asking questions.
Well, married for 19 years, but wife cut off any contact of a sexual nature 10 years ago. i find myself to be too into masturbation and need to find some information and guidance on the best way to curtail it, i.e. a chastity device. I am a bit submissive as well, but i am not looking for a Mistress at this time.
Learn you will just like I did. Best thing to happen to our sex life in the last few years. Hope you have a woman to share it with to get the full effect. It is not just about locking yourself up but about bringing more intimacy into your relationship. Some use chastity to control their masturbation. I know that I did initially. The real magic happened when my wife joined it. Things have been more than great since we started even though we are not doing it as much as we used to. I guess, our love life was cured so there is no more need for the medicine.
@Needtobechaste , Welcome . Couple of questions if you dont mind? Are you still married and why did she cut you off?
Still married, she just decided she no longer wanted sex. She has Type I diabetes which i think has taken away her sex drive, but she refuses to address the issue. Really frustrating to live with, but with children in the house I am not willing to leave just yet.