Want to be locked up, but wife still needs the penetration

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    #1 pantyman25, Jun 20, 2014
    Hi,
    some background

    I've been wearing panties, and sexy underwear for a couple of years.
    I find it shows my package better, i'm average size, but on the thin side.

    I use butt plugs and have strap-on sex about once a month.
    This isn't forced, we both enjoy me wearing thongs, boy shorts. full back panties, she enjoys dominating me anally.
    She loves satin and she enjoys the feel of my cock through the material, she will have me wearing a satin thong and take me anally, whilst stroking me through the material.

    We discussed and looked at a few chastity devices, and eventually settled on a metal cage.
    I've been locking my self up to get used to it.
    On Wednesday night we had the opportunity to go out with her wearing the key.
    Soon as I was locked up and saw the key hanging from her neck between her boobs, I was shaking with orgasmic power, but without coming. I was excited and concerned if anyone would notice the key.
    she said why would they and off we went. I was nervous and excited all night until our return.
    We went straight to the bedroom, where she proceeded to get her toys out and bring her self to orgasm.
    As soon as she had her orgasm, she unlocked me and climbed on, I lasted under 2 mins and came deep within her.

    sorry for the long winded background, but my question is how do i get my wife to deny me for at least a few days or to give we an orgasm in chastity. When she says she needs me to give her fulfillment.
     
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    #2 Nostromo, Jun 20, 2014
    You can get a strap-on to use on her.
     
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    #3 jemima, Jun 20, 2014
    you cant cos you has to do what you told
     
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    #4 downtherabbithole, Jun 20, 2014
    Combine the above two answers with the old trope of 'open communication'? Explain that's what you want out of the play, suggest using a strapon on her rather than the dicklet (just think. she could even go up a size- what an offer), and either way respect her decision.
     
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    #5 guest 2942, Jun 20, 2014
    strap on which was already suggested could work, she may even prefer it ;). There is also a thread on her about using numbing creams and delay condoms, check into that.
     
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    #6 pantyman25, Jun 20, 2014
    thanks for your replies.
    we have in the past used dildo's which are bigger than me and she does come very hard with both holes filled clitoral stimulation.
    But she says "It's still not the same as having the real thing for intimacy" Maybe she's being kind.
    I will ask if we can try this whilst locked up.
     
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    #7 guest 2942, Jun 20, 2014
    i think maybe she is just being kind as you say. If you communicate that you like the denial of orgasm and your truly ok with that, she may be more inclined to give the strap-on a go.
     
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    #8 Giles_English, Jun 20, 2014
    On the other hand she may take your aversion to penetrating her as a rejection.
     
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    #9 pantyman25, Jun 20, 2014
    I will ask her if she would; like to try the smaller strap-on. I've tried the larger one just as a dildo in the past, and she couldn't take it comfortably.
    Even though she rams it into my arse :)
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    #10 chairandstone, Jun 20, 2014
    My wife absolutely loves penetration, and can only rarely cum without it. For her, if she can't get penetration, our sex life is null and starts to fall apart. We've tried strapons (feeldoe, traditional strapons, dildos) but they were just not the same for her.

    So we have compromised (which is what it is all about)...I love being hard for her, and being denied/teased...so penetrative sex has become part of my being teased and requirement to satisfy her. I have found that by using different positions helps me not cum (but her to) such as being on top/behind, or when on bottom with her riding my cock I slightly "tilt" my hips which doesn't impede her riding me but for some reason takes my cock just enough out of alignment to not cum myself. Other tricks, I use condoms with numbing cream for long/intense sessions of penetrative sex, I tease her clit (oral/etc.) for a good while before sex to make her cum faster while on my cock (lessening my chances of an accident), and occasionally tie her up so I can control the rhythm (I find this helps a great deal, being in control of the rythm...it brings her to orgasm but at a pace I can maintain without cumming) . This works very well for me and her...I can go for a long time, still feeling the caress of her pussy, but not cumming (while making her gush over and over). This is building our relationship incorporating her needs for penetrative sex, while keeping me teased (extremely teased) and orgasm denied...in fact the penetrative sex makes the teasing so extreme it is a new plateau.

    Good luck.
     
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    #11 Max51, Jun 20, 2014
    I have the opposite problem. Wife has not allowed penetration for over 35 years and rarely has me do oral. I have been replaced by her vibrator unless she finds a new girlfriend but she is not even looking.
     
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    #12 guest 2942, Jun 20, 2014
    @Max51, your not suppose to be posting ha ha lol.
     
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    #13 guest 2942, Jun 20, 2014
    @chairandstone , makes some good points. if she truly needs penetration by you then I wouldn't push it or maybe adopt the approach @chairandstone uses.
     
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    #14 Max51, Jun 20, 2014
    Wife woke up n a good mode and said it was unfair to impose a penalty retroactively so I can post again unless I pester her about sex. We are no longer going to be shooting for long term chastity. My denial will be kept to 1 to 3 weeks just to keep me guessing. I still have to stay locked up 27/7 as I have wandering hands. :)
     
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    #15 Wendygirl, Jun 20, 2014
    Chastity is about not having sex when you are not supposed to.

    You are kept locked up when on your own or not in the company of your KH.

    When you are needed to perform you are unlocked and do what ever is necessary to please your KH if it involves HER boy bits .
    Its not about you topping from the bottom re running the fantasy you dreamed up the last time you had access to your winky and a private 5 minutes!

    So you do as your asked and if she wants you inside her so be it . Perform like a porn star as per your private video collection which she has looked through probably with her best mates anyway.
    You never know it may be your last time for days weeks months ever! after she filled the lock on your cock with super glue when you were asleep.

    Xx Wendy
     
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    #16 Wendygirl, Jun 20, 2014

    Bottoms are very greedy what was bit big last week is too small this week.


    Xx Wendy
     
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    #17 chairandstone, Jun 20, 2014
    And that...I will agree 100% with :) Once you get started, its hard not to want more!
     
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    #18 Nostromo, Jun 20, 2014
    Are you able to last long enough to satisfy her without coming yourself? That is an option if you can make it work.
     
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    #19 pantyman25, Jun 21, 2014
    nostromo.
    I would say from experience no.
    she is a very sexy wife, and I find it hard to control my emotions.
     
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    #20 pantyman25, Jun 21, 2014
    yes i'm onto my third dildo. although the last one is a stuggle :)
     
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    #21 I LOVE my Choice!, Jun 21, 2014
    My wife is enjoying controlling my orgasms more and more...

    She rarely lets me cum inside her, choosing 99% of the time to ruin me IF I'm allowed to cum at all... Sometimes she slips me back inside afterwards to further enhance my frustration...

    It is a case of negotiation... I would like to be locked for a looonnnggg time, but my wife also loves the penetration and cum... She loves the way it feels inside her... So I can't deny her that if that is what she wants now, can I??!!!

    She's not really interested in dildos either (although she did raise an eyebrow when I showed her the clone-a-willy!!!! As long as I could use my left over PA jewellery to pierce it and use it that way!!!!)

    She keeps me guessing as to whether I cum or not.... which I am learning to love despite my yearning for denial....

    Last time we had sex I gave her two O's, then she said "Your turn." So I thought I was due and at the very last moment she rose off me and it was perfectly ruined.... She fucked me over both in mind and body.... Which is EXACTLY the point!!!! I love her SOOOOOOO much!!!!!

    Like all things it's a work in progress and working towards win-win is our goal!!!

    With the absolute kindest regards.

    J.
     
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    #22 cth96190, Jun 21, 2014
    I suppose that your choice is either have your wife hold the key so that she can unlock you when she wants to be serviced (a dildo cannot supply the sperm that she enjoys); or enter the world of cuckoldry and find a hung stud who can give you wife both the penetration (till her eyes bulge - lol) and the sperm that she desires. You may enjoy remaining caged and watching as she is serviced by a bull. A lot say that they do.
     
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    #23 I LOVE my Choice!, Jun 21, 2014
    @cth96190 yes that's an option but definately NOT for us!!!

    We'll continue finding our way... We'll both have to give a little to gain a lot in the end methinks!!!!!

    Thanks for the input too buddy!

    With the absolute kindest regards.

    J.
     
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    #24 pantyman25, Jun 23, 2014
    thanks for all of the responses. some good ideas.
     
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    #25 pantyman25, Jul 7, 2014
    I was caged all Friday Night, Saturday and Sunday.
    This was the closest I got on Friday night with my cock, we tried with me wearing the strap-on and the dildo did it's job, and kept her satisfied for Friday night.
    But on Saturday, she unlocked me. she had already fucked me with the larger strap-on for a good 10 minutes.
    I seem to get some staying power from somewhere as after 5 mins she was begging for me to cum.
    I obliged soon after. I was then locked up again till the following afternoon.

    She's also starting to understand , what being a keyholder means.


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