Wife and i have been talking about a full year of lockup

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    #1 Dave Leonard, Mar 14, 2014
    Would love to hear from others that have done it, part of me feels I can do it, part of says a year is a long time lol
     
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    #2 MistressBitch, Mar 14, 2014
    lol, a year IS a long time, its 365/6 days, lol, and I bet if you did it for the leap year, that extra day would seem like eternity. Im struggling to keep him in lock up without any problems for more than 24 hrs. I think Charliehousemaid might be in permanent chastity, if he has the time to contribute. Its an idea for the future ......:)
     
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    #3 Dave Leonard, Mar 14, 2014
    I have gone almost 3 months in the past and that was very trying
     
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    #4 Giles_English, Mar 14, 2014

    I suspect the lock up part of it would be harder than the not coming part.
     
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    #5 spider1973, Mar 14, 2014
    I am going on 5 months now, she says it is permanent. I even shave locked. Unless she wants a baby lol
     
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    #6 Giles_English, Mar 14, 2014
    The ultimate in Safe Sex?
     
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    #7 Dave Leonard, Mar 14, 2014
    we have been talking about it , right now im locked for lent so I still have 5 weeks to go, I think she is thinking after this
     
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    #8 MistressBitch, Mar 14, 2014
    i think that having a year should be a goal, an idea, not set in stone, if he gets an infection or a damage you need to be realistic and allow unlocking for safety sake and medication. By all means give it a go, but also I would consider making the rule 'no climaxes' for a year. This is much easier to obtain. I agree with Knightservant, make sure the device fits and is comfy before locking for a whole year!
     
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    #9 starflyer, Mar 14, 2014
    So what are you going to be locked in? A steel belt?
     
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    #10 Nostromo, Mar 14, 2014
    My wife would never live without my penis for a year. The long-term lock-up is a very different thing than what we do, but I wish you well.
     
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    #11 Dave Leonard, Mar 14, 2014
    She won't be going with no penis lol
     
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    #12 Dave Leonard, Mar 14, 2014
    I do have a full steel belt but I don't think I coul do a year in that. Maybe my cb6000 That is very secure and I have no problem going to work in that
     
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    #13 MistressBitch, Mar 14, 2014
    lol, I couldn't go without mine's penis either, that's why our life is a little different, its all climax denial and masturbation denial. Hence he is unlocked regularly, ie normally twice a week. Plus if I don't get him out, I cannot get him hard, edge him, and get those dopermine levels up
     
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    #14 dynamic, Mar 14, 2014
    Full year of lockup is very difficult. Regularly release for cleaning or shaving is essential.
     
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    #15 Dave Leonard, Mar 14, 2014
    I love watching her with other men while being locked so that helps to lol
     
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    #16 MistressBitch, Mar 14, 2014
    lol, go for it, that's being cuckolded. It often goes along side chastity but isnt the same
     
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    #17 Dave Leonard, Mar 14, 2014
    :) I have to get through lent first lol
     
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    #18 MistressBitch, Mar 14, 2014
    make sure you eat lots of chocolate!!! lol
     
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    #19 Dave Leonard, Mar 14, 2014
    I will lol
     
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    #20 Sulley_Monster, Mar 14, 2014
    My wife and I have been discussing something very similar. We're thinking about me going an entire year without an orgasm...unless it comes from anal stimulation. I would remained locked up much of the time, but she still enjoys sex with me. So, when she wants it, she would unlock me for sex. I wouldn't be permitted to orgasm during sex and would probably be locked up right after. Right now we are thinking about starting it the night before my 40th birthday in late July. I wouldn't be allowed another orgasm until I turned 41. This idea both frightens and excites me.
     
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    #21 Wendygirl, Mar 15, 2014
    I have never been that long with no climax so often wonder about it.
    If I did I think it would be a full belt totally secure no risk of trying to be clever. .
    Mentally to say that is it for a year would be just that forget about it and find something to do.
    That could be done if I was single but what happens will a partner around .
    How much sex would they want and thus making you think about it .
    Very different story .
    When people go on hormones which block the boy sex drive some can't cope and stop after a few weeks and go back to dressing for pleasure. Some describe it as blis free from erections and annoying sex drive.
    Xx Wendy
     
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    #22 Dave Leonard, Mar 15, 2014
    Thanks for all the replies ! its nice to see im not the only one that is considering a year with out orgasm
     
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    #23 Joroincharge, Mar 15, 2014
    If it's what she wants, then no problem
     
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    #24 barbara desmonsche, Mar 16, 2014
    i think going for 1 full year is a fantastic idea & a goal to try for. So far i have been locked just shy of 6 months as the longest stretch. This year i am locked, & have been, since January 15th & do not have any indication that i will be unlocked for any reason any time soon. To make matters even more serious, my Wife, also my Keyholder has been working different hours. Our daughter is in high school so she is up later at night so we hardly have any private time together. This is kind of forcing my locked time period & going without an orgasm to go on longer & longer by default....lol This is by no way me complaining, i love that i am being kept under control.
     
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    #25 Her Dividend, Mar 19, 2014
    Less is more. Fewer orgasms = better ones. Fewer days in chastity = more excitement. Extremes are best left as fantasy and possibilities.
     
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